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me and my boyfriend dated for a really long time and he broke up with me and a day later hes dating my best friend. WOW right? well get this then he dates my new best friend like what the heck. HELP me out what should i do?
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| thats a terrible thing to do | 12 | |
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"a day later"? They've probably been together for a long while, or planed to be as soon as he dumped you. Fuck 'em both.
well he was he was my best friend we did everything together and now he doesnt even talk to me
That's bad. Really bad.
I wonder if anything ever happened betweeen them before you guys broke up.
I'd talk to your "best" friend and tell her/him it bothers you, and you're hurt, specially when it's only been one day since you broke up, which is not normal at all.
I'd also try and hang out with other people for a while, or you won't be able to move on!
I'm sorry and good luck xxx
I've noticed that you still refer to him as, "my boyfriend;" not only is that a bit possessive in your case, but you're not even trying to let go. He's your ex now, and not your boyfriend anymore.
I understand that it's upsetting that people who you viewed as friends would date someone you were once involved with, but that too you got to let go. Plus, think about it; if he's hopping from one girl to the next so quickly, then it proves he has no idea what he wants or what he's looking for. If your friends really want to try to tie down an indecisive guy, then let them deal with that headache. Just leave him be and move on. Treat it as his lost, and you gaining your independence/time back to do what you want.