Is it normal that my best friend and i are drifting apart?

Lately, my best friend doesn't seem like much of a best friend anymore.

All that she ever does now is insult me, bully me, and basically abuse me.

Most of this began last year, but I tried to ignore it because it wasn't as bad as it ended up being this year. This year, however, it's simply unbearable and it's hurt me enough to cry every day after school this week. I'm not even telling my mom what's wrong, because truthfully, she's not all that good with sympathy.

For example, my best friend ditched me twice this week, and basically treats me like a dog. She smacked my hand today when I tried to point out her spelling mistake, and she's ALWAYS talking about her new outfits, but rarely caring about mine.

I used to think of her as my best friend, but now I can't help though think of her as a spoiled brat. She thinks that she can get away with anything just because she's her. She's always abusing me in every way possible (physical, emotional, etc.,) and is really ruining my life.

Along with that, she's turned nearly all of our old friends away from me. She does it subtly, and it really, really hurts that no one knows who she really is. No one knows that the class teacher pet is someone who shoves her best friend during a game; no one knows that she's someone who plays nice and then physically abuses people. No one knows just how much she insults me, and it hurts.

Is this normal, or am I the one being a spoiled brat?

Please, help me figure out a way to ditch her tomorrow. Please.

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Comments ( 6 )
  • RoseIsabella

    Stand up to her, and distance yourself from her.

    I feel for you, girl, and this is why some of us don't have a lot of female friends. Don't get me wrong, there are a lot of cool chicks out there, but I'm not a fan of cliques of mean girls.

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    • Beeswaxsmith

      Thank you for the advice, and that's exactly what I'm going to do this Friday. Thank you so much.

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      • RoseIsabella

        You're very welcome.
        ;-)

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  • weirdgiraffekid

    Just because she had made herself your only friend does not mean she is your best friend. Sometimes in life you're better off starting from scratch. It might feel weird to be alone until you find new people, but you should get away from the people who hurt you.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Not a best friend.

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    • Beeswaxsmith

      She used to be, but not anymore, so I agree :(

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