Is it normal that my 14-year-old daughter watches porn?

I have a 14-year-old daughter that I love very much, and she is also my only child. I care about her very much but was not able to spend a lot of time with her due to my work. I have always believed that she was a pure, innocent girl until I caught her watching pornographic videos online. She did not notice my acknowledgement, and I pretended not to know anything about her interest. When she went to school, I checked her internet browsing history and realized she have been watching porn on internet for over a year.
I feel shocked and worried that my daughter will grow up becoming a girl who doesn't know how to appreciate her own body. She have never been in a relationship as far as I know.
I need some advises and help on how I deal with this issue. Should I talk to her? Should I control and limit her internet usage? Is it normal for a 14-year-old girl to watch porn?

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  • bessielamb

    I watched porn when I was 14, and way before that too. It's a natural part of growing up, being curious and discovering what excites you and what doesn't. I wouldn't worry about it. Just make sure you have a talk with her to help her understand that sex and love is much different than something you see in a porno.

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  • Faceless

    Watching porn does not contribute to you not knowing how to appreciate your body. It just doesnt turn you into a slut or man whore upon viewing. Its purely for fantasy and most people can discern between fantasy and reality. With that said most people on here will tell ya a 14 year old girl watching porn is normal. I have no clue nor want one. Also maybe she started watching it because she didnt buy your bullshit birds and bees story and wanted something more detailed? Thats enough. I feel like a creep for sticking up for porn but, it had to be done.

    Awesome fact: My porn name would be Max Longevity.

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  • i think its a big shame

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  • Mando

    Forget about the "pedestal" - she's a child and still needs a parent for supervision & guidance. Why haven't you had parental controls installed on her computer? Do it. Why haven't you told her that pornography is not appropriate for a 13-14 year old? Do it. Why haven't you told her you do not want pornography in your house? Do it. Why have you not discussed what porn is & how it is different than real women and real relationships? Do it. And why have you not set her up with appointments for some guidance from a nurse or counsellor about healthy relationships? You get the drill. You can not duck your responsibilities as a parent here. Be gentle & respectful of her in how you approach her and a remember that it is your lawful duty to provide the supervision & guidance she needs as a child. Failure to do so is a breach of your responsibility & will also create problems later.

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  • l7io9

    if i am honest, it is normal, if anything she was quite late in starting to watch porn, i also began at the age of 13 (i am now 19), and was considered quite late to start, and anyone saying that it is not normal is talking a load of BS, anyway,it must be better than her going out and finding a BF, and found out what sex is like in RL.

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  • DefinitelyNotNormal89

    When I was 14 I never watched porn, in fact I never have, I've always just associated it with young males but than again maybe I'm the odd one lol but a lot of men watch porn and I suppose as long as it isn't something wrong (saddistic, animal etc) I wouldn't really worry about it.
    She's a young girl, maybe she's just curious?

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  • When I was four-teen I was already masturbating and I'm a guy. I think a girl that young would be more experimenting/fantasizing rather than actually being sexually aroused (in the sense that adults understand it). I think that since I grew up thinking that no one should be ashamed of their sexual preferences nor those of anyone else, I think that as long as your daughter grows up being social, supported by her parent(s) and accepted for who she is, she shall become just fine.

    Don't worry too much.

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  • randomjelly

    I think Faceless should read the recent studies published in academic journals showing what an adverse effect porn is having on society. While some aren't affected...many are ruined. The statistics are shocking and sad.

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    • are they just correlative statistics?

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  • hornycnt STFU but dude dont stop her not saying this cuz im 14 im saying it cuz i watch it and my whole family know and they fuck with me and make jokes but if shes the only other person there she wont take it as a joke just tell her you know and say this "if you promise to wait till your 18 i will get you stuff to use instead" (dildo/vibrator)

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