Is it normal that mum called me slut

I don't know how to build a relationship with my mum. We always fight, argue, different opinions, over protective which lead to I don't trust her and she don't trust me. We don't have close mum and daughter relationship too I never tell her how I feel or what I wanna do cause in the end she said "I provided everything you need. Isn't it enough? What more do you wanna me to do?".
She called me slut or prostitute whenever she got angry saying "Do your prostitute work", "Earn money being prostitute cause you don't try hard enough for your education", "I don't paid money your class to check out the guys in that class". I am not allowed to have boyfriend too (I'm 18 and Asian) and I never had boyfriends trying to prove her that I don't interested in boys and focus only on my academics.I remembered every single words she said since I was young about 12 or 13. I try to ignore those words but i feel so sad every times she said those. Every times, when i saw my friends having lovely bonding times with their mum, I just feel so empty, sad...

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11% Normal
Based on 9 votes (1 yes)
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  • JonathanOo

    That's not normal or healthy. I went through the same thing and I never had a chance to ever bond or have that "happy" type of family. You're mom sounds stressed and unhappy herself. You can message me if you want to talk

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  • Ratmanwakes

    We are getting one side of a story from an 18 year old female. I'm siding with mom here. Something is up with this young lady that she is not telling. Her mom would not make a "prostitute" reference for no reason. Yes, I'm siding with her mom. Definitely.

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    • Tinyprince

      I hope this is sarcasm on your part. If not, you are blissfully ignorant of just how random abuse can be.

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