Is it normal that men only go after looks and not personality?

And all women go for rich, good looking guys. I can generalize too!

Looks make you notice someone, personality makes you stay with them.

Not all of us are shallow, insensitive pigs... just most of us.

Maybe the guys who aren't so shallow are quiet and easily overlooked.

That's an absolute lie, for me personality is about 70% of a girl. and I can vouch for a lot of men I know. Look your best, but don't worry to much about your vanity as much as your character.

Men only go for looks like how women only go for money. Sounds like blatant stereotyping. Well, it is! So stop generalising men like that. There are perfectly nice men out there who go for personality and not looks. Oh, and by the way, physical attraction ultimately still plays an important role. Haven't you ever seen a guy and thought to yourself that he's a very nice guy, but you won't go out with him?

I see it the peger way around quite often. I have yet to meet a Girl that does not judge by looks.
I am slightly overweight like 6 kilos.
So i aint fat.
And yet i have yet to meet a girl that would not reject me.
I have been told tons of times from
My friends that my personality is amazing.

But no Girl ever bothers to try and learn to know me.

Its normal, but not right. That kind of behavior is often found amongst assholes. And most of society doesn't seem to give a fuck, because they are the ones who do the same. Its pretty sad. It sucks when people can be the nicest person in the world, with values, and yet, get pushed a side for a girl who has already been around the town. I think you should forget about them, and someday the right guy will come along, and he'll love you regardless. And don't worry he'll come around.

Some men might, but I guarantee, just like women, the majority don't. Girls and boys aint that different you know.

A couple of boyfriends is not an accurate reflection of half of the world's population.

I agree with Stoncutter. If I wanted a relationship, it would be for who she is, not how she looks. that I think makes the relationship more comfortable. The only reall good way to know is to be friends first and learn about each other

I only go after women for their personality i could care less about what a person looks like.

If they're going after looks then they're only thinking with their dicks, which stated above makes us insensitive pigs. Real men respect a woman, treat her right and love her for who she is.

Yeah, and women only go for rich and good looking guys. And all women pretend to only care about personality.

Yup, generalization works both ways...

Yes it's normal, now make me a sandwich.

men and women are both 'shallow"...I admit I am..and I don't give a crap anymore since its all I attract to myself too

I go for personality over looks. pretty girls are nice to look at,but I need a good conversation.

Then stop dressing like a slut

yes, and that's just right. Otherwise they could make a big mistake and go for a girl, they would always want to change. First her appearance, then probably brain transplantation will be recommended. BOYS use your primary instincts, please!

YES, they think with their...

yes, ofc is normal, how else would they get a bonner?

theres gotta be a physical attraction on some level or it dont work. ladies do it too its just how humans work

ok no no i have been attracted to a bunch of guys and girls and most not because they were "hot". now i will not lie sex was on my mind a lot of the time but really i was more attracted to them because of who there were as a person.

Maybe the guys that aren't as shallow

right. and yet they say women only go for the heartless, insensitive bastards who break their heart and completely over look the sweet, kind guys. blah blah blah.