Is it normal that men cum so quick?

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I'm highly sexual. I become a whole different person. I've always thought sex was very important and more than an act. Its an art like dance or massage therapy. Its the way you dress, walk, smell, talk, etc. To the point where I studied it and I escorted when I was single to select people. My husband being one. I hear 95% of the time I'm amazing and extremely passionate. I actually am learning the art of prostate massage currently. After our move I would like to further study tantra with my husband. Fun! Anyway I am prego now and my husband is long distance. My hormones have been raging so I've been allowed to handle my need. I've given up because I have tried numerous times to be pleased however we hardly ever make it past 5 min or so of head or if we do he's so aroused he cums within minutes. Or he spends the time moving so gently because he trying not to cum but still its like five to ten min max. No exaggeration. I try to be horrible. I try do be less sexy. Less makeup or not so hot clothes. Doesn't work. Never bothered me because I used to cum by giving pleasure. Now I need it. I get the really embarassed "oh my god I don't know what happened! Or omg I'm sorry I was so quick after they brag about stamina so I don't know what to make of it? Am I over expecting? I search out the sweet guys not the ones who'll sleep with anything. Maybe that's it? Is this just a normal thing because I'm not their gf? My exs never had a problem. Is this normal over 25? Does this happen to every girl? Did this happen before and I just never cared because my whole focus has always been them. This is so embarrasing but it really hurts. Thank you so much for your help.

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  • YngPoly
    12 years ago

    For all the guys out there. There is this thing called edging, do a girl a favor and learn it.

    I have a standing rule, for every 1 orgasm I have she must have three. I won't even enter a girl unless she has at least one orgasm.

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  • iamwhoisayiam
    12 years ago

    Those are good suggestions. Thank you. My husband actually very much pleases me its the others who don't so I'm just chilling. I don't need it now my hormones are controllable now where masturbation now satifies me rather than before where it made me hornier. It was horrible.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    Perhaps your husband can give you more foreplay first - no reason why he can't make sure you climax that way before he penetrates.

    Even if you require penetration there's ways he can mimic it with fingers first.

    You also may want to consider trying numbing lubes for him, and perhaps tingling ones for yourself. That way you may find you reach fulfillment faster while his is held back a little.

    or, consider using condoms - not for birth control but to help numb him a bit. in fact it may work well if you both use different lubes, so your lubricants don't intermix and affect your partner's climax ;)

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