Is it normal that men are so selfish!?

You are fucking dumb. Lol it's not selfish to want to wait to have a baby untill you're ready and able to provide for it. If any one is selfish here it's you. You went and had a baby despite how he felt about it when relationships are suppous to be a 50 50 thing. You make decisions together. He was still in collage. That's absoutely normal. I find it fucked yo that you say you think Ya selfish that he wants a easy life? He's suppous to want a hard one? Not only is it easier for him if u waited to have that baby but it would of been easier for the child because now the babys gonna grow up probably not having everything it deserves because you didn't wait till his daddy finished college and now he's gonna have to grow up with immature parents who weren't ready for the responsibility of a child. Don't even say you're mature because mature people don't sneakly get pregnant that's fucked up. You sound bat shit crazy

Smells like troll.

Fuck off.

You must be two for get a baby, it's not selfish to don't want a child ONLY because your partner want it, whatever your reason.
And sorry, got pregnant when the father don't want it, is 10000× way more selfish than don't want a child, it's horribly selfish toward your partner and even more for your CHILD, do you really thing he/she is born in a desireable situation ? you don't cared at all about it, it proves a child is just like a puppy dog for you. (A good analogy would be buy a dog without the accord of your partner even if you works too much to play with him/she, it's really selfish toward the dog)

On the other hand, I think he must assume being his father even if he is a victim of your borderline behavior, but it's your child who deserve it, not you; he had totally the right of dump you but you are entitled to nothing,

Shut your clam, you rotten shellfish.

You sound so ignorant. It seems like you're the one who needs college seeing as how you can't even spell it correctly.

I wouldn't be surprised if he disappeared one day and never came back, I would. Actually I would have left you a long time ago. Dumb bitch.

This is either troll or a signal that the human species is doomed

Forcing parenthood unto someone that doesn't want to be a parent. That's low, OP. For shame.

Sounds more like you're the selfish one.

That was heartless, irresponsible and dumb of you to get pregnant on purpose you've just ruined someone's life, he's not done with college and hasn't established himself yet as a proper financially stable adult who can take care of a baby. You're bat shit crazy, I feel sorry for your children. Don't you have any ambitions in life other than ruining lives.

Wow you don't deserve either or your children read your post and notice it's all about you not only are you selfish but also exiting some signs of being a sociopath which should really concern you. One of the most important things you learn while raising a child is that the days of it being about yourself are over and I very much doubt somebody as selfish manipulative and dishonest as you can do that so do your children a favor and let somebody adopt them then get your tubes tied you would be doing the world and your children a huge favor

For a brief moment i tought it was true.

I love the way your grammar changes from post to response get a life lol

Men are selfish? Bullshit! You are the one who is selfish. You get together with a guy, you want a baby, he is not ready. You should respect that. Having a child is a very big deal. You can't rush into that. You have to have a steady life. A place to live, well paying job and be ready to be a parent.
While you just fucked a guy, got a baby and then ditched the guy why exactly? Cause you cocked up and he is angry?
Of course he is angry! What do you want him to do, do the cossack dance and sing Ma Baker?
And now what? You are a single mother, raising a child without a father.

Also why all men? You say you've been with 2 guys, yet all men are selfish right? Maybe you get together with selfish men, cause you are selfish yourself.
To a degree, people surround themselves with people similar to them.

bet this is a man trolling. grow up.

The title isn't even relevant to what you're saying. Fuck off.