Is it normal that men and women eating together is unacceptable?
Is it normal I believe that men and women eating together is unacceptable?
Ok, so let me clarify a little...
I believe that women and men should eat separately, unless they are like officially enemies, and then it won't matter, let me explain...
Suppose we have a group of straight males who eat together, now that's alright since the relationship between the members is not romantic, same goes with straight females, they are allowed to eat together as long as it is out of sight of straight men that might be attracted to them (and vice-versa)...
Why, you ask?
Well, if two straight persons of the same sex eat together it does not make a problem since they're not attracted to each other, HOWEVER, if a male notices an attractive female and wants to have next level relations with her - she must not eat in his proximity.
Why? Well because if she'll eat mass quantities of food in his presence she'll literally be full of SHIT, and that's quite disgusting, that's an instant turn off... Like, do it obviously, it's a necessity, but alone, not in my presence! I don't want to see this, and imagine how she digests the food which in turn will turn into steamy shit inside her intestines...
The same goes for males, don't get me wrong, if someone likes a certain woman he must not eat in her presence, because that's just digusting and rude.
A couple, female and male, in an intimate relationship, cannot eat in a restaurant together, it is simply impossible to be a couple and eat together, that's sick.
How can you tell someone you love them and at the very same time eat in their presence?! It's a contradiction, you cannot! If you love someone then the least you must do is to respect them and not commit such acts near them.
A male and a female can eat together but then it means that the two will never be together and are in fact just some random people who have no special sense of respect for each other.
So, it is very simple actually, if a woman and a man decide to live together and have an intimate relationship, there needs to be two separate kitchens, one for the man and one for the woman, which are protected with a bio-metric door lock, so that it is made sure that they cannot accidentally see each other eat.
One's wife cannot simply decide to make a meal for her husband, and at the same time claim to love him, it would mean she lies, and that she actually hates him if she does anything food-related near the one she claims to love...
Now, discussing food or its derivatives between a male and a female is forbidden as well, whether a couple or not, such conversations can only be held between persons of the same sex.
So in short, there are things that should be kept private in a couple, and this is definitely one of them.
Anyone feels the same?