Is it normal that me and my boyfriend hardly have sex ?

39% Normal
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So me and my boyfriend have been together for a year. If I'm lucky we will have sex once a week... I don't understand. I'm a sexual person and I'd like it at least once a day. We are happy together. We bicker like any other couple. I'd say we have a healthy relationship other than our lack of sex. I am so used to my boyfriends jumping all over me to the point it was almost annoying. I miss that. Being with him is more important than sex.. But it makes me think I'm not good enough. I'll walk around naked or leave the bathroom door open while I'm taking a shower. No reaction from him.. I know he loves me and will never cheat on me but is this normal ?

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39% Normal
Based on 18 votes (7 yes)
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  • wistfulmaiden
    8 years ago

    Some men do not have a high sex drive for whatever reason. Does not mean he's cheating. Find ways to initiate sex more... And tell him that you'd like sex more.

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  • missy911
    8 years ago

    Does he know that your sexual appetite is daily? If so, and he isn't wanting to take a tumble in the sheets; then it isn't going to get better/

    You need to get while the getting is good.

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  • Sweetz
    8 years ago

    At least you're getting some

    :|

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  • baelovesme
    8 years ago

    how old are you? and how long have you been together? that can make a diffrence sometimes too.

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    • Alicook94
      8 years ago

      I'm 21 and he's 29. We have been together for a year

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  • victorygin
    8 years ago

    Tell him you want more sex and get him to do things to increase his libido, like taking supplements, horny goatweed or whatever is out there.
    I don't think "normal" really matters or even applies with things like this.

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  • pyrofox
    8 years ago

    Change it up im a guy and sometimes diversity is stimulating. But not to dramatically

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    • pyrofox
      8 years ago

      It also could be hes got high respect for you and is nervous that he may hurt you. And start a cycle of self dread.

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  • green_boogers
    8 years ago

    This relationship isn't working for you, and it won't get better. Many men (including myself) want sex everyday. You need a guy that will give it to you 5-9 times a week. Start shopping around.

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  • ucipher8
    8 years ago

    At least it has been, once a week. Not once a month or once every 5 months.

    How much does he enjoy it when you two have sex?

    Maybe he's just trying to keep things interesting.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Sounds like he's getting his sex from someone else, whether you want to believe it or not.

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    • baelovesme
      8 years ago

      not always! lets not jump to ahead...

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