Is it normal that me and my boyfriend....

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now and the furthest we've gone is kissing. He's asked for sex but I just don't feel like I'm ready. Now i feel like I'm letting him down and afraid he might move on. Should I just give him what he wants or not?? is it normal to feel this way? I'm so confused!!

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Based on 71 votes (51 yes)
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  • lc1988
    12 years ago

    Don't give in. You need to wait until YOU'RE ready and if he can't respect that, let him leave you.

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  • Dad
    12 years ago

    If he leaves you, he didn't love you.
    It'll be good to find that out before you get married!!

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    • iloveeyouusz
      12 years ago

      I don't think that she should wait for marriage. If hes been with you for a year hes Obviously wants to be with you, sex or not, but i think you guys should try it out.

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  • colourmoon
    12 years ago

    how old are you?

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  • Noonesperfect
    12 years ago

    Wait till your married.. I bet he just wants you for the sex..

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    • iloveeyouusz
      12 years ago

      She shouldn't wait for marriage, she needs time to explore.

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  • 8==D
    12 years ago

    Do it you will love it. He will love it. And it will take you a step forword

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  • bleach_baby
    12 years ago

    take things one step at a time. maybe touch his wang and see if that clarifies the situation for you. if you're horrified by it, you're probably not ready for sex. if you're like, oh this is interesting, then maybe fool around a bit and gradually see where that leads you over time.

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  • live.(:
    12 years ago

    I think you should do it whenever you feel ready. If you're not ready to have sex with him, it won't be as amazing as when you do it when you're ready, if you get what i'm saying...

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  • iloveeyouusz
    12 years ago

    Me and my boyfriend have been dating for only 4 weeks but he already wants sex, I do imagine if were still together in a year we will have done it and i honestly think that you should try it if you do love him, I don't feel ready either but i am willing to give it a shot. we've gotten a bit farther then kissing so I'd say give it a shot(:

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  • hollykinss
    12 years ago

    Im 16

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  • karmasAbich
    12 years ago

    Would it be like throwing a hot dog down a hallway?

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