Is it normal that me and my best friend slept together (both girls)

I've known my best friend since the beginning of secondary school and we've always been very close, we are now both 20 and live together at university. . She has always been a very touchy feely person who constantly wants cuddles or to just be close to you. Our relationship started to change a couple of weeks before university mainly in nights out, we'd kiss and dance together as if we were a couple and whenever a boy would try to pull her I'd "save" her by telling them I was her girlfriend. On my birthday night out we were both very drunk, we went to the toilets together and ended up passionately kissing, things got extremely heated until one of our friends looked over the toilet cubicle to check we were still in there. Later that night, she came back to mine and we ended up sleeping together. It was amazing. All night she was telling me "in an ideal world we'd be together" but that she "wasn't a lesbian" and she'd never felt this way about me before but she wanted this to happen. This got me very confused. We agreed that it was a drunken mistake and it happened because we are so close. When we moved to uni we had many fall outs because when I was drunk I'd ask her why it happened so that I could try and understand. It looked like we were going to permanently fall out and no longer be friends. After a couple of weeks we sorted things out and I stopped asking about that night. We are now closer than we have ever been before but her behaviour towards me has changed. She never wants to cuddle me anymore but will show affection to everyone else. I just don't understand.... Is what happened that night normal and do you think she could be acting differently because she has feelings for me?

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  • mypenisinyourmouth

    The entire time reading this I was thinking about that show on MTV called Faking It

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  • RainbowFlash

    She has a self imposed identity in which she is not a lesbian.

    A lesbian is as a lesbian does. She's a lesbian or at least bi.

    She should follow her heart and be with you, if that is what she really wants. She is either lying to herself, or you. Just don't hold out for her, don't let her use you when she feels lonely. Either she is prepared to be with you, properly.. or be a friend. One or the other.

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  • TrunksHitachi

    I have done the same but with a male friend.

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  • CоuntessDouche

    I tell everyone i am heterosexual but the sad truth is that no man will have me so in private i am forced to carpet munch. But hey, these things happen OP. Don't worry about it

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    • But are you physically attracted to men or women?

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      • CоuntessDouche

        I am physically attracted to men but they just find me too gross for some reason :(

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        • CDmale4fem

          Its been said there is someone for everyone. You just havent met him yet. Im a middle age male, have yet to find my "true love". But I think its just really hard to find women that are into guys that have as much or more lingerie as she does. Some have even used the term "gross" for that also. So I am attracted to women, had a couple biexperiences in my life. Just saying.

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          • CountessDouche

            Thank you, that's very kind : )

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            • CDmale4fem

              Oh and you are so very welcome. My phone was getting all wild and crazy for almost the last week and half. It wouldnt let me access much at all. But fixed and all better

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            • CDmale4fem

              I actually could really get into watching 2 women makin out and all the kinky, cool, and sensual seductive aspects that I associate with female on female sexual encounters.

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        • CDmale4fem

          Have you had your carpet munched lately ? I would like to see more of the carpet, or bare floors if thats the case. Im open to alot of things.

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          • UnabashedUser

            Haven't carpet munched lately but I've slit licked and had a few furburgers

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