Is it normal that love one person and lust with another person

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I LOVE my boyfriend. He is very nice and gentle. And it include that he wait for me to do some touching staff too. So he don't touch me alot bc he said he love me, not lust. So I feel not enough about it. I kissed another guy. Make out. Let's another guy that I didn't love suck my breast. And play with my body and touched him as he want but no sex. Then I start to thinking about that guy but feel really bad and sad. When I think I want to do that with my bf, I want my bf touch me like him do. But I "never" want that guy my bf. I didn't love him. It's just lust. Is that normal. Now I feel crazy wrong with my bf bc he love me so much and always talking about our future together. Do I love my bf if I Start to think about the guy that touched me when I play with myself???

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  • randomjelly
    12 years ago

    Wtf did you say?

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  • go4it
    12 years ago

    If it's the bf you really want to be with accept he's not touching you , it could be that he's just trying not to be pushy , or it could be that he's not that into it .
    You have to talk things over with him if it is him you really want to be with.
    Choose some nice times , it need a few and just talk about stuff. See how he does feel sexually and what he's thinking .

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  • rawisjericho
    12 years ago

    I'd say that you should forget about boys and go to school. You're obviously not that bright

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  • AngAnders112
    12 years ago

    talk to your boyfriend and explain to him that you have sexual needs that need to be taken care of. ask him if it's okay if you fulfill these sexual needs with other men. tell him you'll still love him and be his gf, but the other men will just be getting you off physically. tell him he can even watch if he wants to. if he says no then leave him and find someone else who treats you better and loves you enough to have sex with you and has enough confidence to not worry if you're other guys just for physical satisfaction.

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  • tacolord
    10 years ago

    Look... Its not good to be unfaithful. But its good that you worry about it. Just let your bf know that you like that he plays with you more.... I mean, cmoon!! You're a girl!! Just seduce him to the point of uncontrollableness and then make him feel good and proud about it!

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Rofl I didn't get much either but the touch my breast part made me laugh. Is the staff a penis by any chance?

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