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Is it normal that alot of people want to put me down and not be nice to me ,including "Is it normal " website ?
Most people feel isolated - even the most 'popular' ones. Maybe you're just a bit sensitive and take offence where there is none - I don't know, but the key is not to let them find your weakness! Never let them know that one particular thing has hurt you or that's the one thing they will keep on and on about. Shrug them off coz people like that aren't worth bothering about anyway, and aren't important enough to have an effect on your life!
If someone insults you as a joke, pretend you didn't hear as you weren't paying attention to them, and ask them to repeat it. It will lose its impact and usually they haven't the gall to repeat a real insult. Plus it shows that you don't value them enough to even listen to their comments!
If it's 1 or 2, it's them; if it's more it's you. What are you doing exactly? Are you talking too much? Men have died for saying the wrong thing; guard your words carefully.
As general advice I counsel NOT getting involved in mind games. They're petty and only the insecure play them.
I know this may be a harsh answer but do you think you give people reason to want to put you down? If the answer is no, it's probably jealousy on their part.
don't know if i give them reason ,tell me what could be a reason for some people to put others down , but i do know that some are jealous .
There are all kinds of reasons. People might be jealous of your looks, your popularity, your intelligence, or your money. Or they may genuinely dislike you. I don't often dislike people (I see the good, rather than the bad) but reasons I might dislike someone is that they're cruel, selfish, ignorant, or arrogant. I wouldn't put them down, though. I just wouldn't pick them up in the first place.
I'm sorry it's happening to you, but there's always a reason. It's either someone else's problem or yours.