Is it normal that ladies don't talk to me?

I'm a somewhat shy guy. Very handsome,yeah!. I'm always afraid to talk to ladies 'cos i'm so shy to. With this i expect a lady at least one to confront me first and be my friend. But rather all they do is to greet and smile at me. None had ever come to speak with me at least for 30 seconds! I mean seconds!! Last year i did a nine month program at a school and throughout the nine month, i can't recall any girl speaking with me and even before then and afterwards.This year alone out of 100% of my speech, i guess only about 0.00001% are with females who are not my family member. I feel so jealous when i see my male friends (who are not as handsome as me) talking with ladies. And i wonder why they don't talk to me. This is gradually causing me to have some form of hatred to ladies nowadays. I think it's so unfair. I feel like crying;-(. How can overcome my shyness and why am i so neglected by them?

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  • ToxicCrayons

    better ask a few more times bruh

    If you aren't trolling, which you most likely are, to answer your question anyway: you lack the ability to self-inflect. You can't expect people to do something "for" you and then become worked up over it and put all the blame on them when they don't meet your expectations. Nobody owes you anything. You honestly don't sound very intelligent and i just hope your hatred for women doesn't reach a level where you begin to act violent towards them, even though it's pretty clear your disdain is a result of your feelings of inadequacy but you're not self aware enough to realise that. I don't think you're aware of the amount of egomaniacal men who feel the same way as you do and make their lives and the lives of the people around them miserable as a result.

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  • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!

    Keep a hundred dollar bill hanging out of your wallet, chicks will follow you around for hours.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Maybe they think you're a snob?

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  • Ezroni

    You're another worthless beta cuck who'll work 9-5 for 50 years and come home to continue being a forever alone faggot and, eventually, you'll die alone

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  • daydreamer394

    It's not normal to hate them when you're the one not speaking.

    I am shy too, I understand. But it's difficult for other people to approach someone they're not sure wants to have a conversation.

    Also, your handsomeness is subjective.

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  • Muyiwa

    Thanks all

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  • SometimesNaive

    Maybe they don't want to make you uncomfortable. I'm one of those girls that talks to shy guys usually, but if it seems like he wants to be alone I won't bother him.

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  • reminiscent

    Well you think you are good looking why dont you talk to them?
    Ill tell you a story...
    my bf was very shy and liked me since he first met me in high school. I talked to him and he saw I was kind to others. After he graduated a year ahead of me he got a new style and hair cut then on MySpace asked me if I wanted to hangout at the mall with him...I said yes and he came to pick me up...later that night he kissed me and we have been going out for 8 years now.

    Take a chance talk to a girl.

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  • dudetalk

    Here's a tip: go out, and tell 10 complete strangers "hi can I ask you something?" when getting a "yes" ask something, whatever, "how many robo cats do you think I have?" "where is the galactic spaceship?" "when did they invent the time machine?" (of course I'm joking and it is more reasonable if you ask a logical question, I'm just trying to make the point that IT DOESN'T MATTER what you ask, only that you do.)
    every time you gone up to someone, feel good, don't count how many times you got a "yes" count how many times you confidently gone up to someone and clearly asked for their answer (make sure they hear you but don't shout on them lol)

    after the answer feel free to let the conversation roll until you feel you had enough.

    sounds weird to do, but you say you have a problem with initiating a conversation, that will help you.

    another tip:
    always be nice! (not a bitch like "here I will hold your books for you" or "I will clean your shoes wait" etc) but just smile and be supportive and positive to people.
    do NOT act tough or "cool"! don't lie to make yourself look good, be honest, simple, kind, no one can hate on that guy.
    for example people here have a reason to hate on you because you claimed your friends are not as good looking as you... that what it means to "act tough". don't do it.
    be the guy that help out if being asked to do something reasonable. (there's a difference between being asked to offering help when help isn't needed like I mentioned before, being a bitch)
    good luck

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      • daydreamer394

        How old are you?

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  • dickwashington

    confidence is key!

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