Is it normal that knowing this about him hurts?

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So me and my boyfriend have been dating for a while now and I know that I wasn't his first, but he was my first. At first it hurt me to know that he's been with someone else and it hurts me all over again when I see pictures of them together. I also know that he's had unprotected anal sex with another female... Why does his past hurt me so much? I love him with everything I have but knowing this makes me feel horrible.. Is this normal?? I shouldn't even care about it wasn't even while we were dating

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  • BoredGuy
    12 years ago

    a good protector needs experience

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  • bigtoy
    12 years ago

    Can you do anything about the past? No. So what's the point in worrying about it?

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    • MyHazelLabyrinth
      12 years ago

      just by telling someone just cos you cant do anything about the past then theree is no point in worrying about it,
      well duh, i think if ppl wanted to not worry about the past they wouldnt, except it isnt just a switch

      but the point is, the past is the past ,if you live and focus yourself in the past then you wont be able to live here and now

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      • bigtoy
        12 years ago

        Quite right. It isn't is a switch, but it's kind of a way of putting things in perspective isn't it?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    It hurts you because you wanted to be his first. I think it's a normal feeling. If you love him, it shouldn't matter who was before you, it's the past, we live our lives the way we think is right and we can't always wait for that someone. All that should matter is that he doesn't have any sort of STI.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    You. Need to get over it.

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