Is it normal that just kissing my boyfriend makes me wet?

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All right... My boyfriend and I are a little different. We don't believe sex to be a necessary part of a relationship. Actually we tend to see it as primitive in ways. Anyway, both of us tend to ignore our horomones and things of the sort. When we were kissing, I'd begun to get quite wet. I knew it happened, but never to me. I've had plenty of boyfriends in the past and this was never the case. It has only happened with this boyfriend... And it kept happening involuntarily. I wasn't even having any sexual thoughts. Well I wonder if this us normal. And us there maybe a way to stop it?

Please don't suggest I masturbate or have sex. I don't want either. I want something helpful, not ignorant comments, please.

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  • dappled
    13 years ago

    Sex is primitive? Well, yes, it absolutely is. Every single one of your antecedents necessarily did it right back through Homo Erectus some one and a half million years ago. Otherwise you wouldn't be here. Other primitive things include breathing, talking, dreaming, and yes, even thinking. Are you going to give these up too?

    I'm not being critical. What I'm trying to highlight is that the reasons you give for abstinence are not the real reasons. Your body's own physiological response is preparing you for sex. What I'm guessing is that either you or your boyfriend (or both of you) have some fear of sex or intimacy. You'd do much better to face up to this than to live in denial with this notion that sex is primitive.

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  • SteamPunk
    13 years ago

    But I don't think sexual thoughts while it's happening, not even necessarily turned on...

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  • MercedesBenz
    13 years ago

    That means you really like him. Yes, it's normal. As for how to stop getting turned on? I know of none except for thinking of your parents when you start to notice you are getting turned on.

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  • Mimi69
    13 years ago

    Yes it's totally normal, and why would you want to stop it?

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