Is it normal that ive fallen in love with my best friend?

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I met this girl a few months ago, and have really grown close to her. I once came very close to asking her out before we were close, when her friends showed up at where we were eating and i couldnt. A day later my best friend asked her out, only becuase she was hot and he didnt have feelings for her. While she was dating him she became really close to me and always complained about him. She told me she didnt know why, but even though he treated her like shit she liked him. She would say things like "we would have been a cute couple" or " your more like my boyfriend then ___ is, i feel safe and comfy around u and your not gay" "i love you and thank god for bringing you into my life" Its been 5 months now where she considers me one of her best friends and always talks about other guys in front of me and to me. Is it normal that i still cannot stop loving her and feel like ill never be able to stop loving her?

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  • fuckingyes
    11 years ago

    I have had a crush on my best friend for a while and i have known her forever and i mean she and I are going out now but were still best friends and its easy to fall in love with someone who your comfortable around

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  • Allistalla
    11 years ago

    Tell her if she is so misreble dump him!

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  • Allistalla
    11 years ago

    I have been in simalar situations so you are gonna either torture yourself for years or are going to have to move on to another girl and let her stay miserable in her relationship. Or and I do not condone this but she is going to want to cheat on him with you and it will create a big mess and if she is willing to cheat on her first boyfriend what makes you think she will be any more fiathful to you?

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  • Allistalla
    11 years ago

    Dude get her to dump her asshole of a boyfreind and tell her how you feel! itll be much helthier for the both of you trust me! If she does not want to honestly be with you when you tell her that you want her than tell her stop telling you those things since she sounds like she is pretty close to cheating aswell as being a total tease so get her to dump him or stop saying those things. You should not get tossed into a bad situation since she is undecided.

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  • Ark
    12 years ago

    she's dropping hints ask her out

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  • stonecutters93
    13 years ago

    Completely normal. I too am in love with my best friend, only she knows how I feel and she's single. Just be there for her when she needs you, and maybe one day she'll realize you're the one she's meant to be with. If it's meant to happen it will happen. Best of luck.

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  • xdamienlockex
    13 years ago

    classic love story.
    You know how they end dont you?

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  • hope4thehopeful
    13 years ago

    I'm in the same spot for two years now. I've just recently basically said screw it and moved on. He's changed her so much now it wouldn't matter anyway. It sucks, but yeah it's pretty normal

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  • southernbarbie16
    13 years ago

    It's the same with me. I definitely know how you feel. I think you should ask her out, it really seems like you would make a good couple. I hope everything works out right for you!

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  • chaosdragoon1
    13 years ago

    Being a girls best friend=boyfriend without benefits or sex.

    And this is a prime example of it.

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