Is it normal that ive created an imaginary boyfriend?

i dont tell anyone about it but whenever i sleep i try to dream about him, we have the best life, its like the better life i've always wanted, its so perfect. but whenever i wake up, I get really upset and mad because i can't ever have this life cause its not real but whenever i think about this it ruins the whole illusion. So i try and ignore/not think about it being fake because i feel im hurting myself. does this happen to anyone else? is something wrong with me?

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Comments ( 19 )
  • thanatos

    It's a little weird, but to each his (or her) own. As long as you don't start believing he's real or let it affect your real life, it seems fine. I mean everyone fantasizes.

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  • TheJackel

    Top. Lame dude your not amusing with your raunchy little comments.

    It's normal to fantasize however it can be detrimental to yourself getting caught in a fantasy world.

    The real deal is out there you just gotta be patient enough to look for him. Also, make it easier by going out so he has a chance to find you in real life or else the only place you will see him, is IN UR DREAMS

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  • imperfect

    I have the same problem.

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  • Biohazard

    It's normal but u can't keep the truth from urself. u need to keep a hold on reality because later on in life no guy will meet ur "perfect" standards.

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  • lolman787

    i have an imaginary gf, & i belive i will meet her someday... for real

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  • Rirr20

    I have one too. I'm scared i might fall in love with him.

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  • ChuvPuvDaKwuv

    Just don't get freaky on us, and you're good.

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  • sarber144

    All you need is some patience. Your dreams will come true oneday. You will soon find that special someone all you need is time and patience.Don't worry he will come!

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  • ccjigsaw

    I think it's pretty normal, I'd be cautious though, if you're imaginary boyfriend is too perfect, then when it somes to finding a real boyfriend, you may become to choosy. It's possible, so just be aware noones perfect :)

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  • TypingT01

    I've had relationships and I often have dreams like that.

    It is truly depressing when you wake up isn't it?

    It's your sub conciseness basically saying that you are lonely.

    But chin up, everyone has a soul mate :) (I keep telling myself this!)

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  • alinaapple

    oh yeah. you know you are like me haha. same. it could be nice to talk to you (:

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    • kid-trekkie

      yeeh :)

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  • Babel

    it sounds like a normal thing for a teenage girl to do, yes. i dont though, never even had a boyfriend or even wanted to before but i kinda do now, not that i'd make one up though! i do have imaginary friends in my head though

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  • animalcracker

    Ive had these dreams but with my dream girl. Sometimes i wish i could just stay in my dream forever.

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  • afronaut

    I Would say it's normal sometimes I dream about having fake relationships but in my dreams they feel like a reality so yeah it's a nice feeling as long as it's last. Sometimes I also have sex with imaginary women and it feels great it even feels real even though I've never had an intercourse in my entire life.

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  • chicken471bologna

    Well I don't think it's abnormal I think it's weird. Have you ever had a boyfriend? This is common with people who have never been in a relationship.

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    • kid-trekkie

      yeh i've had 2

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  • crazykittens

    I think you're young, immature and overly desperate. You need time to sort out your priorities even before you invent your ideal guy.

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  • alv1592

    i think that's pretty normal. but eventually, you may want to look for qualities you like in real guys. like, what qualities does your imaginary bf have? maybe someday you'll meet someone that's similar to him in a lot of ways.

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