Is it normal that ive been inlove with a guy for 4yrs that i met once?

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When i was overseas, I met this guy back in 2011, and i instantly fell in love, he was everything i looked for in a guy basically. After i went home, we spoke for a while online, and we were connecting really well. I started having all these scenarios with him and i still do now. I don't talk to him anymore but, and he has a girlfriend but im still inlove with him and i dont know why?

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Perhaps it's because you have no one real in your life. Go find yourself a real lover and this long time crush will fade away so fast you'll wonder if he ever existed.

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  • Jess1010
    7 years ago

    This happens when you are young and don't know any better. But no it's not good. This isn't Love it is infatuation. You don't even truly know him, just projecting your wants onto him. Like men do with porn. It is unhealthy.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    That obsession, not love!

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