Is it normal that it turns me on to cheat on my boyfriend?

Feel free to judge me, but is it normal that I get really turned on from the thought of cheating on my boyfriend?

Not with multiple other men though, only with 1-2 friends (who I occassionally have sex with). Cheating makes me appreciate my boyfriend more. I'm not insecure at all, my boyfriend also treats me well, but this just immensely turns me on. And I know my boyfriend hates the idea of me cheating on him, and he gets insecure at the thought...but this also turns me on too; him being obliviant to my cheating is sexy. I don't think I'm a sadistic person though, but maybe I am; I don't know.

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Based on 80 votes (28 yes)
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Comments ( 21 )
  • charli.m

    He deserves better. Will it turn you on when he finds out, is hurt and betrayed, and dumps you?

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  • VirgilManly

    It's normal for a cunt.

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    • RoseIsabella

      Hahaha...HELL YEAH!

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  • thegypsysailor

    Ah, forbidden fruit. Aren't you just a wonderful girl. You must be so proud of yourself. Just the kind of girl your children will look up to and ask; "Which one was my daddy, mommy?"

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    • Agirlsbestfriend.

      What a slut!

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      • green_boogers

        Swinging is for sluts. Maybe your boyfriend would like to try it with you.

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        • Agirlsbestfriend.

          Why? To give you something to think about while you mastubate in your basment? Ewww. Creep

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  • LornaMae

    You come cross as a narcissist looking for narcissistic supply. And a cunt.

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  • Araikita

    Question: What would happen if you just seek a boyfriend who is okay with an open relationship?

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  • RoseIsabella

    Is it normal that I think it would be funny if your boyfriend found out about your cheating and dumped you in a painful and humiliating way, preferably in public?

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    • Crusades

      He's most likely not gonna dump her. Men are too pathetic and desperate nowadays to have a minimum amount of self respect. They will put up with anything. I've seen a lot of dumb fucks asking prostitutes to marry them...

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  • familyguy63

    You guys are too rough on her! She ain't ready to be in a committed relationship ,that's all!

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  • cheatinggfadvocate

    no its not normal but it's hot af and you should 100% keep doing it

    as you say you do it because it turns you on. you're not doing it out of spite or to hurt him, there's nothing malicious about it.

    these comments say it all really.

    "cheating with guys with smaller penises"
    -i mean, says it all doesn't it. if i had a gf i hope she would never deliberately make herself less fulfilled/happy because it means you might see a bigger penis than me

    "he hates the thought of it, but I don't care because I get pleasure from it!

    Selfish."
    -how is her being sexually fulfilled and doing something to satisfy her own hedonistic needs 'selfish' and your statement also assumes that she does not satisfy/meet all of his sexual needs & desires (which, considering how adventerous she is, it's safe to assume she does). you understand male orgasm and female orgasm are two entirely different processes requiring two entirely different approaches, right? but males never take this into consideration.

    "Dude, time is changing and a lot of people are actually turned on by the thought of having an open relationship."
    -what makes you think she wants an open relationship? you understand that sex != emotion, right?

    "I think its a turn on as long as he is aware of it. I would be willing to clean up after for you if that would also turn you on?"
    -i think your fetish is a turn on as long as you change it to fit my fetish
    ????

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  • Braveheart46

    I think its a turn on as long as he is aware of it. I would be willing to clean up after for you if that would also turn you on?

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  • olive_smh

    Jeez...what's more disturbing are these comments :/ And I just want to put out advice...if it turns you on fine what can you really do about it right? And I don't judge you for feeling that way normal is just a concept we make up to get people to conform, well at least I think. But the decision you make of actually going through with this depends on your boyfriend too. Be considerate towards his feelings as well as your own. If you are not willing to be considerate of how he feels about that then maybe you shouldn't be together.

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  • zenparadox

    Would it still turn u on he were accepting of it and into it? If not. Thats pretty cruel. Ok stuff for fantasy sure but not to go through with it. I don't think its normal that u are that far into an urge that like most abnormal urges. Would be normal if u had a milder case of it, as in if u liked to fantasize about cheating or flirt a lot.

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  • SadoShaun&MasochistMarci

    I like cheating on my husband... with my brother. If you cheat on your bf, just make sure you don't cheat with your heart... unless you are wanting to find love.

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  • Caramelmilkshake

    You should leave your boyfriend. Go and find some sleezy guy in a strip joint. You are a narsasisst and dont deserve a loyal guy.

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  • FunkyMonkey

    Of course it's not normal!! How would you feel if he cheated on you?? If anyone ever feels they should cheat, they shouldn't be in a relationship.

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  • (s)aint

    Dude, time is changing and a lot of people are actually turned on by the thought of having an open relationship.

    There's no need for you to be with someone if you are only going to cheat on him. Poor fucking guy, I hope that you get a really nasty STD, Cunt.

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  • Are you cheating with guys with smaller penises, and that makes you appreciate your boyfriend more? I don't understand how sleeping around makes you appreciate your bf more. Poor guy :/ it sounds as if you are being fucking selfish. It turns Me on to sleep with other guys, he hates the thought of it, but I don't care because I get pleasure from it!

    Selfish.

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