Is it normal that it still hurts everytime i have sex?

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Seriously this is getting ridiculous. I am done with sex! (jk never) but Im so confused about my status. I don't think im a virgin cause my ex and I did it for the first time finally after multiple times and ya it hurt but I got it over with with someone I love. Then the few times after I did it it still hurt and I understood it was still the beginning so maybe thats why it was still irritating. But now Ive been doing it with this guy and I swear I would think it wouldn't hurt anymore but it still does! And I go all the way regardless. In my mind Im like omg this hurts so much but f*ck it! Whats wrong with me!? and I can't seem to get that orgasm going like I can literally get one by myself so good. Maybe I just don't need the D, maybe I just wasn't meant for D.

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  • KingRabbit
    10 years ago

    Your doing it wrong.

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  • tuvwxyz
    10 years ago

    Its normal. From the info given it sounds like u have a slight problem with getting wet and staying that way. Unfortunately there are women that have those problems. Like the posts before me youll probably have to constantly use lube but make sure its not vaseline or something cheap or it will bring on an infection. Use the more expensive lube that is designed for a vagina and that can be absorbed or broken down properly in the vagina. You may also have to have your partner restrain from entering you until you are very aroused and completely wet. Id advise u not to have sex in water like the tub cause that hurts worse and takes away the natural lube your body makes and covers up the pain until your done. Just use lots of the good lube and that will help.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    You really haven't given enough information but generally USE MORE LUBE.

    For example how many days has it been since your first time?

    Going from memory a girls pussy may stay sore for a week or so after her first time so you shouldn't be screwing if you're still sore. Let it heal up and chill. The virgins I'd taken said they couldn't even walk for awhile after we did it. Of course they were exaggerating but they meant it was painful/uncomfortable.

    How big is your guy?

    How small is your pussy?

    Some girls have a rare condition where their pussy is very small and sex is painful with an average or large guy.

    It's also possible but doubtful that there's something wrong inside you and you may need to get checked out.

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  • suky
    10 years ago

    sorry, posted before I edited

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  • suky
    10 years ago

    YOu might have an abmnormality - see the gyno/ IT's more likely you're dry and need lube. It's possible your man is a clumsya dn inconsioderate lover.

    1) use some lube
    2) see the gyno
    3) get a new man

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  • driedroses
    10 years ago

    You could have a number of medical problems. Ranging from a common yeast infection to something more serious like vaginismus.

    Or you could not be getting wet enough or your partner's penis could be large.

    I need more information to determine what's really wrong here.

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  • Eves444
    10 years ago

    U have either 3 things:
    1) dyspereunia
    2) bartholin gland obstruction
    3) vaginismus

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  • yesnomaybeso
    10 years ago

    Woah I don't know, It never ever hurt for me, not even the first time. But maybe he's got a big dick? :p Yeah I'd also say get lubricant.

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    10 years ago

    Either he is big, you are tight or both.

    I have been sexually active for about 7 years now and I have had 13 different partners, all ranging from crazy large to embarrassingly small and I have had many sexual encounters with them and to this day, penetration hurts like a bitch.

    Get some lubricant. Best advice I can give you.

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    • DannyKanes
      10 years ago

      Neuro! Back from basic training? How was it? :) Just read your comment, have you ever heard of Vaginismus? It could be that. You should google it :)

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      • NeuroNeptunian
        10 years ago

        Basic Training was both hilarious and frustrating at the same time. FRONT LEANING REST POSITION...MOVE!

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      7 years and it still hurts?

      Bitch that ain't normal.

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      • NeuroNeptunian
        10 years ago

        No pain no gain!

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        • [Old Memory]
          10 years ago

          Yeah but all pain no gain :(

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      You get around.

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      • NeuroNeptunian
        10 years ago

        Not lately.

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        • [Old Memory]
          10 years ago

          Want to do the deed?

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        • [Old Memory]
          10 years ago

          I know a girl who admits to doing the deed with over 30 different guys. Its a bit excessive but I was one of them. **blows ghost load

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    my wife has a small opening and needs lots of foreplay to get her wet so i can enter her, either that or use lube ky jelly for instance

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