Is it normal that it's easier to be disliked than liked?

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People just end up not liking me for some reason whether it's something I did or something they think I did or something they did that I reacted negatively to. You can spend years trying to cultivate friendships and love interests and they'll ditch you in a second if you do or say the wrong thing once. I've had some enemies for far longer than most friends.
I've gotten comfortable with expecting it and just embrace the hate now. At least I'm making an impression if they hate me this much. No matter what I do this has been the outcome so why fight it?

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Comments ( 8 )
  • Freedom_
    10 years ago

    Maybe you're overreacting to their reactions. Just because someone gets mad at you doesn't mean they don't like you. Maybe we have some cultural differences or something, but I've never seen good people give anyone just one shot and ditch 'em, unless they just blew early on before a real friendship/relationship formed.

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    • dom180
      10 years ago

      This! Unless you said or did something absolutely awful, no-one will go from thinking of you as a friend to hating you.

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  • Riddler
    10 years ago

    Yes its very easy to become disliked. You have to know how to manipulate everyone in the right way to make everyone admire you. You have to inflate yourself while at the same time stroke everyone's ego. You also have to do this in a manner that seems sincere. Its a very hard skill to master. Though being liked is not what makes you happy. Having to please the world is no fun at all. Its much easier making yourself happy.

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    • FJK_frm_AK25
      8 years ago

      That's not true I don't manipulate anybody n have pentys of friendds

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      Yeah, fuck all that shit. You lost me at manipulating and inflating.

      I'm happier being honest.

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      • Riddler
        10 years ago

        You cant make everyone happy. When you do you are not really you. Just be you. That road is not for you. Be who you are. I tried and I was misreble. However I am happier being misreble as myself than a misreble liar.

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  • Aliceee93
    10 years ago

    I think I'm a little tooooo silly for some people.

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  • pazzler
    10 years ago

    I'm sorry it has come to this for you. But this has only been the outcome for you so far. There's no need to always make it the outcome because of that.

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