Is it normal that is it normal is becoming my obsession?

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so yeah, its not been a really long time since I've joined in neither am I too active here... but still since the day I've signed up for this website it has been on my mind!! before it was because I used to be impressed by the posts and the comments of most of the people.. but now its because I have made friends here...
these friends are very special for me and when ever I talk to them I get really happy.. so happy that the whole day I'm thinking about them and our conversation!! sometimes I'm so obsessed that I even start dreaming about it..
the problem is that I don't want is it normal to become my addiction and that these friends who probably I don't even know properly should not be always coming in my mind..
so according to you is it normal and what should I do for it.. plz help!!

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  • Saycheese
    10 years ago

    I can tell you that it's not the healthiest to be obsessed with anything really. It's best to like things at moderate and do the things you are best at in life.

    Think about what it might be that is causing you to obsess. Think of some sort of fear or insecurity you might be holding on. Maybe why you obsess because in real life you don't have too many friends? Maybe you don't necessarily have a hobby or interest at the moment that you can continue onto.

    There are explanations to why someone obsesses over something. Like a person for an example; they most likely have fear of not finding someone else because they have a insecurity that they hold on to do to past rejections. They need to come to realization that they are better than that and they aren't being themselves. Every single human on this planet has someone that doesn't like them and has different interests. Be happy with who you are.

    Like so yours might be a fear of not being able to find new friends and so you obsess over the people online because they communicate with you. You might have had bad past experiences of people insulting you and rejecting you of being their friend. I can't say that's why but it might be.

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  • joolia03
    10 years ago

    Haha I totally get what you're saying! For me, I feel like its family here because usually the comments on my posts are from the same people so its like without even knowing each other, we can genuinely relate. That's amazing. I think because its anonymous, people get down to the truth and the responses and posts are sincere. It's like oh the world isn't that messed up. People do have feelings and are rational. But I can see why it'd be weird to trust people over the internet. So with that being said, keep your friends and thoughts to yourself like you have but don't depend on them so much that you lose in touch with whats in front of you in person.

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  • robbieforgotpw
    10 years ago

    *turbo dumps himself**

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  • Rebel18
    10 years ago

    Totally normal.

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  • DangerousPotatoGuy
    10 years ago

    I don't really know how i ended up here but I think I made the right mistake

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  • Wendell
    10 years ago

    Idgaf about these people...

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    Can i take your money to take you obsession because you don't need that shit?

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