Is it normal that im unable to let go??

is it normal that im unable to let go of a hurting relationship/friendship? this guy said he likes me. we met on facebook. now he's been distant. and im hurt because even though i didnt fall for him at first...now i like him a lot (physically atleast :P ) because he's sort of the type of guy (lookswise) whom i can like easily. i know its embarrasing to sayt this........... argh!!! but what should i do!! im unable to function properly and m unable to get my mind off him! :( exams are coming up and i spend the whole day thinking about him and trying to convince myself to not think about him and give myself a hundres reasons as to why he's not a good guy for me and i should let him go! but even then when he texts me i simply cant control myself!! :( please help me!

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Based on 25 votes (15 yes)
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Comments ( 7 )
  • joybird

    Try to concentrate on your exams - if he's keen he'll keep til after they're over!

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  • hoping4best

    I had thought there was something about him. Nw he's being distant. So do i have to let go? There isnt anyone else who's interested in me,and this guy says that he likes me but he's just busy. What should i do?

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  • TareBear20

    Next time he texts you, do what I would do. Delete it and shut you're phone off. Find something better to do. You'll forget about it in no time. Even so, it all depends on how strong a connection you have with him, I guess..

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  • hoping4best

    Nobody has got anythng to say about it :(

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  • hoping4best

    Equanimity: ouch, thats embarrassing :p really?? And im not even a teenager. :/

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  • equanimity

    You have to let this guy go. You don't even have a real relationship with the guy. You are acting like a love-sick teenager. This is how they act: like you.

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  • hoping4best

    Joybird- i am trying. Its just so impulsive to keep thinking about him. So hard to stop. :/

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