Is it normal that im still in love with the guy that cheated on me

in the summer i met this guy who was amazing. just a little crazy. he likes to get drunk and he has done drugs. but it was amazing. we met at the lake and i already knew all of his family since we were family friends. i went over to his house every night when his parents went out to the bar. when i went back home (were long distance) a month later we got into an argument and i was telling my bestfriend about it and i gave her his number so she could tell him off for me. the ended up really "hitting off" and ended up talking to each other. ( note: they havent actually met eachother in person) its almost been 4 months since we stopped talking and even though people always tell me that he calls me a 'hoe' and 'slut' i still miss him like crazy. is it normal that i still love my ex that cheated on me with someone he doesnt even know?

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  • Geekgirl

    That's not what cheating on someone is.

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  • thegypsysailor

    You obviously have no idea what 'cheating' is. In the first place I can't see that he was ever 'yours'. Second, "talking to each other.( note: they havent actually met each other in person) is hardly 'cheating'.
    Either you are an over possessive nut job or a clingy child. It seems he's saved himself a lot of grief by putting some distance between the two of you.

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