Is it normal that im sleeping with my sisters ex fiance

51% Normal
16 Comments

I've known him for about 7 years he was my older brothers best friend, I was only young at the time then my 18 year old sister started dating my brothers mate. Let's call him Jimmy. I always had a small crush on Jimmy, but never said anything. And ofcourse after a year things turned around, they broke up, she moved out. It was a pretty serious relationship, he moved on with someone else. 4 years later we recently started talking via Facebook and meet up one night, and we've been meeting up and sleeping together on a regular basis. it seems so forbidden and that just makes it more kinky. We know we shouldn't be doing it but we also know the sexual tension has been there for years.
Is this normal or should we stop before someone gets hurt?

Voting Results
51% Normal
Based on 45 votes (23 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 16 )
  • anitagreen420
    9 years ago

    its normal. just be happy ;) enjoy the moment while its there

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
  • davesumba
    9 years ago

    ummm, If anyone is getting hurt in this scenario, it's you.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • captblood44
    9 years ago

    seems like a small thing. they didn't get married. on IIN it seems quite normal that family members sleep with family members. this guy ain't family. are you happy with him or is it just a sex thing? if its just a sex thing, keep it quite and enjoy the forbidden fruit. if its serious, then i think your sister should consider your happiness. its a two way street. if she's not going to consider your happiness, then why are you worried about her's. selfish family members are nothing to be cherished. trust me, my brother is selfish and since i've broken ties with him, my life is so much better. less stress.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • dasugaknows
    9 years ago

    You are going behind your sisters back. It doesnt matter they broke up, that was a serious relationship. He should have the decency to not go near her family members and you should have the decency to find yourself another man who wasnt involved with ur sister of all people. Your sister is way more important than this crap.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
      -
    • ArmusWasTheFirstTroll
      9 years ago

      Not the OP.

      I never understood this taboo of seeing a friend or family members ex from long ago. I understand if they just broke up; the wounds are still fresh. But years later, I would be happy that my friend of family member could find joy where I no longer couldn't.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      2
      2
        -
      • ArmusWasTheFirstTroll
        9 years ago

        Friend or family*

        No longer could*

        I really need to proofread my comments . . .

        Comment Hidden ( show )
        0
        0
          -
        • dasugaknows
          9 years ago

          First off, its her sister, second she said they had a serious relationship, third there are plenty of fish in the sea but she chooses her sister's ex and she even stated in the comments thats part of the reason it excites her because she isnt supposed to do it which is fine i guess but not at the expense of her sister.

          Comment Hidden ( show )
          0
          0
            -
          • captblood44
            9 years ago

            4 years later. how long does her sister have dibs on the guy? is her sister involved with someone else now or is she still carrying a torch for the guy? more info

            Comment Hidden ( show )
            1
            1
              -
            • Anonymous Post Author
              9 years ago

              Shes married dlto someone else, and with a kid on the way

              Comment Hidden ( show )
              0
              0
            • dasugaknows
              9 years ago

              Look, I don't know about the OP or her sister and I don't know how bad the breakup was and I don't know if her sister and the guy are even on good terms now. I suppose it really depends on all of those things.

              I'll tell you this though, I have a sister, pretty close in age to me, and she is more than a sister to me, she is a best friend. I also have a best friend who also happens to be my sister's best friend and she is like a sister to us. The three of us have never gone out with any of eachother's exs because there are plenty of other people out there to date and our friendships are worth more than some fun with a guy. This was never an agreement or a rule between us, it's just the way things are with us. This has never effected our ability to find love and romance in life.

              It would be sad if the OP's experience with this guy were to tarnish her relationship with her sister. Maybe her relationship with her sister isn't so great to begin with, which would be a shame.

              Comment Hidden ( show )
              0
              0
          • ArmusWasTheFirstTroll
            9 years ago

            Thank you for leaving it unclear. I stated that I didn't understand. All you did was rephrase the post. All I get from your response is, "it's wrong because it's wrong." Thanks for that incite . . .

            In my mind, if my brother and my ex--whom I was with for seven years-- fell in love I would be happy for them. We didn't work out. Hopefully they will. Please help me to understand how this is wrong.

            For future reference, when you make an angry post, try to use proper punctuation. The anger in addition to the lack of knowledge regarding sentence structure causes you to be perceived as inane.

            Comment Hidden ( show )
            1
            1
              -
            • dasugaknows
              9 years ago

              First, I am sorry for the poor punctuation. I should have wrote that when I was not where I was at the time.

              Second, if you want to go ahead and date your brother's ex, go ahead and do that. All I could say about that is thank goodness you aren't my brother.

              Comment Hidden ( show )
              0
              0