Is it normal that im scared to kiss

Why am I so scared to kiss I just don't understand? I have been with a lot of guys but I've only let one guy actually kiss me and he only kissed me I didn't even kiss him back so that makes for a bad kiss right? And everytime I like a guy I lead them on and then when they start to like me back I push them away because iam scared that there gonna kiss me and I hate it I wanna kiss so bad but I'm scared what's wrong with me? Well I just don't know how to get over being scared to kiss help

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Based on 317 votes (265 yes)
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  • samson_bowbarrow

    I for one never kissed my self, I never had a girl friend or was in an actual relation ship. (it was either one way or it didn't even start.)
    any way, if your nervous about you first kiss, then try saving it for marriage. or practise in a fake marriage. try dressing up or something.
    its normal to be nervous about your first kiss.
    I never let girls kiss me because I was nervous.
    don't worry about it.
    you'll find the right guy.

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  • sherry

    Well, I don't know how "normal" you are but after working in healthcare for the last 20 years I'm afraid to kiss anyone too. Mouths are filthy!!!!

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  • Whatsnormalanyways...

    If you find someone you truly like and can trust.. talk to them about it. If they are someone worth your time they will understand. Look at it as an opportunity to share your first really kiss with a guy who you want to it to be with and someone you wont regret. Take the relationship slow when getting to know him. There is no need to rush into the pysical aspect of a relationship regardless how taboo it sounds. Tell him to go slow when he does finally kiss you ... feel out the how his lips move how he works his tongue, then replicate what he does and if you can get lost in it. I had a similar problem a few years back and the longer you want the worse it will get... the fear will build, you will get older making it more embarrassing that you have yet to kiss someone and you will miss out on potentially some great guys, great relationships and possible you will pass up a guy that could have been the one. Your letting fear run your life... your not living hun.

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  • bleach_baby

    This may sound like shit advice, but why dont u go find an ugly guy who wont make u nervous and make out with him, then you know how to do it and wont be nervous about making out with someone u like

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  • combatgal856

    My first kiss was horrible, I didn't even kiss back because I was clueless. However my second kiss was better because I kind of knew how to move my mouth. You are letting your first kiss haunt you, if a guy leans in to kiss you just kiss him back. Remeber the way that he's mouth is moving and try and follow.

    I can't really explain it but just go for it or else you will never learn.

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  • peterrabbyt2

    Do you still suck cock? If so you are okay; if not I feel sorry for you. You should swallow their cum too, especially if you are a man. Forget about kissing it is just a waste in your case anyway.

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  • XxWtf?xX

    How old are you... If you are like six I will kill you 3:( an If your not then just French him stop being a woose!!!

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