Is it normal that im reallly jealous?

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i am really jealous and it makes my boyfriend pissed off alot

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  • HypeTing
    12 years ago

    Ha dont worry about it dude. Im like this with my boyfriend.. but I have reasons. You just gotta think of the worst cos then when you know nothing happened makes you feel 10x better ^_^ Aha.

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  • Oli
    12 years ago

    Jealousy is normal, if you act upon it badly it's just bad.

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  • lc1988
    12 years ago

    Depends on if you have a reason or not. I can see though where this could be annoying for him. Just try to have a little trust.

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  • 21140093
    12 years ago

    Stop being jealous!! Tone it down a bit. I don't know the story with your boyfriend, but learn to trust him. You are in his life and you are the special one =)

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  • 10000katpoop
    12 years ago

    larmunfall

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    He will dump you if you continue not trusting him. You cannot control his life and to shut you up he will start to lie to you.

    Many years ago I saw my now husband watching me across the room coz I was talking to my ex. I walked out vowing never to go out with him again. He ran out after me, and I said, "Don't you ever dare watch me again!" He never has, and we have the best marriage possible - he even drives me down to meet the boys in the pub ;o) and he goes sailing with a female crew on the boat.

    My attitude is - it would be his loss ;o)

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    Being jealous maybe normal, but you cannot let it take over your life, like anger it has to be controlled or run the risk of loosing any relationship you may have at the time! Just a little is cute, but more than that is a deal breaker!

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  • MissClaire
    12 years ago

    I tend to look @ it like this:
    If he cheated on me, I would find out eventually, and the relationship would be over. At least I know now (before I waste any more time with him) that he doesn't love me. Why would I want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me?
    If he's gonna cheat, he's gonna cheat - and the only reason he would cheat is if he doesn't love you. You will push him away if you are too jealous.

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    • Vetterman
      12 years ago

      Great wisdom here!

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  • howaminotmyself
    12 years ago

    Fear of abandonment is at the root of most jealous behaviors. You should try to discover the trigger of the feeling and work to move past it with your partner.

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  • dappled
    12 years ago

    A little bit of jealousy is nice. It lets the other person know you care. But it soon becomes too much.

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