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im a bi sexual black woman and me and my girlfriend have crazy amazing sex. Im probably 100lbs overweight and she absolutely has no problem with my body. im working on losing weight and have been but im just pretty self concious i guess...is this normal?
it's normal. there's more to love, and that's not a saying just to make fat people feel better about themselves. it's actually true, there's more skin to caress and grab, more sexiness to look at, and the ever popular more cushion for the pushin
More to love, amiright? ;P But seriously, look up the sculpture Venus of Willendorf if you've never seen it.
It's one of the most ancient art pieces that we have found, and depicts what at the time was the ideal of feminine beauty. Even as recent as the 50s, there were adverts in magazines encouraging women to gain weight. The whole "skinny is best" trend is very recent.
Personally I much prefer a curvy girl, and as long as you're happy and not suffering due to the extra weight, I see nothing to worry about :)
When you love someone you shouldn't care only for their looks. Be happy that she isn't one of those people who wouldn't date someone only for their weight
very true and ive never been a fat person ive played sports my entire life and was always fit...but in high school my body like shut down and i was diagnosed with PCOS, was put on birth control and its been bad ever since :/ but i love her and i know she loves me so thank u
A WOMAN WITHOUT CURVES IS NO WOMAN AT AL! i love big tits and asses and hate hate hate seeing ribs.
Of course that is normal , I've always been attracted to big guys && honestly the better I think it feels during intercourse. So be confident and love your body for who you are. Good luck.
I'd say it's only abnormal if she's discouraging you from losing weight. My fiancée is about 50 lbs. overweight, and I do prefer women on the chubby side, so I like her body. She isn't entirely happy with her weight though, so I encourage her to lose it for her own sake.
That's completely normal that your girlfriend loves you even if you're overweight. I'm sure that there are other beautiful things about you, that she loves very much. (:
why wouldn't it be normal?
do you think all people are suppose to be so shallow that they don't care about personality?
Remember, weight is something that can change... but someone who's shallow is stuck like that
I am a rather big bi guy and wben I was married I was igger than I am now. My wife was a little overweight but it didn't matter to me and she said she loved me for who I was, and I made her happy sexually and in every day life. My wife is heavier now but we have been married 20 years and she had a hystorectomy 7 years ago which added to her weight gain. Plus she is disbetic, for 7 years she couldn't acheive an orgasm until 5 weeks ago. Of course I love to go down on my wife, and that is how she cum's. For me it doesn t happen very much any more because I am 61 year's old and I had Prostititus about 2 years ago and since then I have not had but a few orgasm's, but that is ok. Because I get great pleasure giving my wife very explosive orgasm's.
Well you mentioned you're a black woman. I'll be honest, she probably just loves DAT ASS and doze thighs. With some overweight girls, their fat goes to the right places, aka their butt, thighs, and breasts. From the sound of it, that's probably how you are.
We all have different tastes! If she loves your body then let it be. She loves you just the way you are, be happy about that.
If you feel you should lose weight for health reasons (I suggest you do at 100lbs overweight - which I was until 2 years ago) then you should. If you want any support with that, I'd be glad to help. You need support from someone who's been there. Skinny people don't get it.
hahhaha well then i think we should exchange info becuz ur very right about that they dont get it and even when they are "just trying to help" its disheartening at times. I do need that support and push tht i cant always give to myself and sometimes i forget. eveeryday life gets in the way ya know...
Sounds like she loves you for YOU. And she's still physically attracted to you, judging by the awesome sex you guys have. She's a keeper, get fit for your own happiness. Sounds like you just need to shed some pounds to feel like you are comfortable in your own skin. Once you feel good the insecurities will melt away.
And I'm not saying you have to lose weight to be happy or comfortable. Just sounds like that's how you feel about it. Just an FYI to prevent and offensive or misunderstood advice. Haha.
haha no i didnt take it offensive AT ALL its hard to offend me lol...ima confident person very confident but with her i want to be my best and because i dont feel my best i assume she thinks tht too....i need to get outta my own head and follow ur advise :)) thanks
Its called a fat fetish. These people are also known as "Chubby chasers". It deosnt really matter it is just a odd fetish but it hardly hurts anyone. Unless you are just saying she deos not mind your body becuase if this is the case it is just becuase she loves you and overlooks all yours flaws for the person you are inside.
I'm a small woman and my bf is always saying that I'm so tiny and I think that women that have flesh on them are sexier. I would love to have a full body. If I wear a short and a t-shirt I look like a child. Be proud of your body.