Is it normal that im only attracted by men old enough to be my dad?

Nothing wrong with it. My husband is 23 years older than me and I couldn't be happier.

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But then why are girls attracted to older men, and older men attracted to younger girls? Generally speaking, a younger girl is more resilient physically than an older woman. From a biological perspective, this means that at the onset of puberty, she can start having children, and her chances of survival are increased because of her youth. The opposing side to that is why on earth a younger girl would prefer to mate with an older male. Mainly strength. An older male will have established hunting trails, and knowledge how to defend himself and his "family." A younger male will have a more difficult time protecting/bringing food home simply because he isn't as experienced. Obviously back in those days life spans were quite short. But we haven't really evolved out of that yet. It was quite common for 12 year old girls to mate with 25-30 year old males. More chances to get her pregnant, more ability to provide, more potential offspring.

how do you do it?! how do you get their attention? i love men in their 40s

I'm 45, and the last woman my wife (44) and I dated was 23, so no it's not weird.

Maybe because young guys watch so much porn, they think bang, bang, bang and its over. Cum in her mouth and you're done! Older men know better. The lady always cums first. You take you time, foreplay lasts and lasts. When she's finally soaking wet and really ready to fuck, then older men slide it in slowly while kissing her hard. This begins a long, slow, deep fuck with a lot of dirty talk. When she finally stiffens and you feel her orgasm, then the older man knows he can let go and pound her hard to shoot his load. They both cum and cum. Mmmm

Actually, it's VERY normal. I took an entire class on this and it has deep roots in our entire evolution as human beings. This is why you will often see much older men with younger woman (but not usually the other way around.) The reason is this: Whether or not we realize it or are conscious of it as women...we are always seeking men who can protect us, provide for us, etc. The reason we are attracted to older men, is because they usually are stronger, more financially secure, more established etc. In caveman days, we needed the protection and security that the younger men were unable to provide. In our modern world that now equates to power, money, social status etc. Men in turn are attracted to youth and beauty which also represents good fertility. I too have ALWAYS been attracted to older men. My husband is 11 years older than I am. When I was 26, I dated a man that was 56. A huge age difference...but it was one of my best relationships. He was mature, educated, grounded, financially secure etc. A big difference from the men my age who were still living in the basement of their parents house and still dreaming of being a rock star. As long as everyone is over 18 and it's consensual...no worries. YOU ARE NORMAL!

My wife 25 and I'm 50. She doesn't have daddy issues. She likes older guys because they treat her better & respect her as a woman plus they make sure she cums first. Guys her age don't treat her that way. Older guys will rock your world & still respect you in the morning & bring you breakfast in bed & spoil you endlessly

Wish I could find a younger girl that feels that way about my age :(( I still look good for 45! )) but trust me, she would have the pampering she never got from the younger dudes!! hehe

I'm 18 and I always prefer a man in his late 30s all the way up to 50. Right now I'm even dating an older man and it's my best relationship yet! And Aubreyskye states perfectly valid reasons for it being normal to like men old enough to be your dad. That's the way I feel too. :)

I study psychology and that is one of most normal things.

a lot of women likes older men. they like their maturity and down to earth type actions. they have been thru all that stupid stuff young kids go thru and are more settled and ready to have a wife and treat her as a wife.

Perhaps you enjoy the experience of an older man. Maybe you don't want some teenager using your body to learn about sex. Or maybe it's as simple as you wanting to cum.

Young ladies like me because I listen to them and care about them.

Why though? I've never understood why some women have this preference.

Because women are insecure. They're afraid that young guys would cheat and go around. With older men that's not an issues since nobody wants them.

Well I'm 25 and I've been in a loving relationship with a 56 year old man for three years, and we even have a child together who is very healthy and happy.

I attracted to older men,some old enough to be my grandfather, so when I saw this I laughed.

Completely normal. I get turned on by older men way easier than by men my age

I have felt that way since I was fourteen. I can't attract any older men though, I just don't know where to find them and how to tell them if I am attracted, it is kind of hard, especially when a lot of them are married unlike most men entering their 20's.

I feel the same way... And yes,i have Daddy issues. I'll admit that. But you are completely normal. Trust me.

I just think that you MAY have an attraction because your dad may have not been in your life, and so your attracted to these older men because you want a fatherly figure. From personal experience.

I somewhat feel the same way except I think I'm generally only attracted to celebrities that are nearly twice my age. Not really sure how I feel about the average joe.

Someone asked why...don't really know why I think it's comfort in security and having someone provide for me....to make all the decisions. I like being told what to do

That's pushin it a bit, however, I've got a bit of a thing for Daniel Day-Lewis as the Butcher. Don't judge me! He was twice my age when the movie came out.

sometimes it has something to do with daddy issues, sometimes girls just like older men.

Maybe you have a daddy complex and are unknowingly sexually attracted to your dad. No it is not normal to only be attracted to people your dads age. It also sounds award for your father. Like what if one day you come back and tell him you are dating one of his friends?

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