Is it normal that im obsessed with this girl?

well im so obseesed with this girl i mean i like her so mutch i can never stop thinking about her even if shes mean to me, i want to know how to stop being obsessed with her i realy need help its ruining my life. how do i stop being obsesssed with somebody and is it normal? please no troll comments i realy need help to forget about this girl.

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Based on 57 votes (46 yes)
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  • pem24

    It's good that you were aware of your obsession. I had that kind of tendency and I managed to get rid of that.. and I'm happy now! So the rule here:
    Love Yourself First!
    Easy to say but you have to. Besides, you cannot own anyone, not even a wife or children. That's because they have their own heads to follow, and no matter what you do, you can not control them at all. Try to mind your own business.

    Good luck!

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    • Alison89

      I agree with loving yourself first. I would also add that if it was me and the person was mean to me, that would break the obsession right there because I have at least a little self respect.

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  • loobylou

    Just ask her out!

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  • ccjigsaw

    Maybe avoid being around her and let time handle the rest? Get a hobby and try not to run into her

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  • funnycommercials123

    Ughhhh I had the same problem except worse.

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  • Energy

    Go out and do things, and hang out with people. Find a hobby and lose all contact with her. It might be hard AT FIRST, but trust me in time you'll just look back and laugh.

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  • ygrowup

    Only way to get over her fast is to replace her with another!

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  • emotionalwreck4ever

    Go Out To Keep You Mind Off Her.

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  • ChronicfailUre

    I have that problem.... I Reckon I'll do what laxman said.

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  • stonecutters93

    If she is unaware of how you feel, tell her. If she is aware of how you feel, but doesn't feel the same way, then I think you need to stop talking to her and start focusing on yourself. Get busy and go out and enjoy your life!

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  • Cindy_isCool

    Plenty of fish in the sea man.

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  • DannyKanes

    Laxman209 is on to something here. By being an asshole to her, she might become interested in you. Just saying, it happens.

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  • laxman209

    I'd say become a jackass for a while. Use your anger to change those feelings. What I'm saying is look at the negatives of the person [or make some up] and use it to drift away from them.

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