Is it normal that im not attracted to anyone but my girlfriend?

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Im a girl in a really happy relationship with my girlfriend. Now what bothers me is that Im not attracted to anyone but her! In any way! I only see her wherever I go everyone is just a shapeless dot to me. This isnt something that I started noticing recently. Ive been like this since ever. She stopped my world when I first saw her. Its the first and last time I evver noticed someone for their looks. Did anything like it happn to anyone else? And if so why does it hurt so much knowing that shes in a relationship with me but still has crushes on other women?

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    If she doesn't act on the crushes you don't have much to worry about, but I'd be wondering why she bothers to tell you about them unless she's trying to make you jealous

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  • JvpiterMaximvs
    7 years ago

    both of you are acting normally. my boyfriend is the same was as you are and I am similar to the way your girlfriend is but I do not act on things like that. I may see a guy or girl and be like, "oh he/she is cute." but that's it.

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  • Tealights
    7 years ago

    You're normal, and she's normal. As long as she doesnt cheat on you or try to mold you into someone you're not, then the relationship is fine.

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    I think you're more normal than she is. Are these celebrity crushes or crushes on people she knows in day to day life? I think she's being inappropriate and perhaps you could do better.

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    • Rancomcommentingperson
      7 years ago

      She has crushes on people in real life, those are people I know and interract with.. Sometimes I talk to them just to see what they have that I dont.. She didnt like me like that at first you know, and I noticed her right when I saw her, I had to crawl through the friendzone for five years with these feelings for her before she began liking me like she does now.. So you can imagine that it hurts a little knowing she feels something for some people right when she sees them for the first time even tho she never had that for me.. I give her all of me and it feels like shes not returning all of it.. And knowing how long it took her to like me and how ling it takes her to like some random person she sees on the street makes me feel so unbelievably unattractive and unwanted..

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    Your insecure crushes are normal.

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    • Ellenna
      7 years ago

      It's OP's lover who has crushes, not OP

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      • mysistersshadow
        7 years ago

        Yea I know thats why I said the OP is insecure. There are alot of ppl in the world and some of them are attractive. I get little crushes from time to time but my gf and other partners are understanding and don't get worried about me running off with any of them. If anything I'd introduce him or her to my "family" and see if they were intetested. Ultimately it would be up to "Daddy" our final arbitrator if they joined the relationship but even if not its a open poly family and I could do as I please and still no one would have a problem.

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