Is it normal that im in love with my best friend and i cant tell him.

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Me and my best friend have been best friends for over a year now and we hangout almost every weekend,He means SO much to me, about a month ago he got a new girlfriend and i ramdomly hated her, i didnt know why, there wasnt anything wrong with her but then i found out she hated me because she thought me and him were to close of friends to be friends so she told him we couldnt hangout anymore, he looked at her and said no, shes My best friend, i wont leave her, and then my heart droped i knew i loved him with everything inside of me, now there not together anymore and when they broke up i was SO happy because he was even more happy without her, but for the last two weeks i sit and cry in my room, im terrified to tell him, we always pick around like were gonna date but i dont know if he means it, iv been single for the last 4 months, Only wanting him, i compare everyone to him, no one is like him in my eyes,he asked me to prom the other day and i said yes of coures, my mom figured out how i feel and she wants me to tell him at prom, not befor it, but what if i dont get the chance..? what if im to late..? im so confused, please someone help me. I dont know if i can go another day without just hoping that maybe, just maybe he feels the same.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Just tell him.

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  • SEC1228
    13 years ago

    I went throught the same exact exsperiance. I was falling for my best friend and i was nervous that he didn't like me back. But finally when i got up the guts to tell him, he ended up feeling the same way all along. We have been together for about a year now and i have never been happier. I am so in love with him. And I honestly think you should tell him because you don't want to waste anymore time. If he doesnt feel the same way, things will be awkward for like, a week. But, if he is truley your best friend, not even that could come between you, i hope i can help.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I agree you should tell him. I'm sure he feels the same if he broke up with his girlfriend cause he wanted to stay best friends with you. You mean the whole world to him!

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  • helloocakes
    12 years ago

    If you date him and you break up afterwards, don't expect things to be the same. I dated my best friend and I lost him, so it's something you're going to have to risk.

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  • kelsey123
    13 years ago

    i felt the exact same way about my best friend as you do yours.. try to be supportive of everything . if he is talking about a girl - dont get mad. let him talk; remember, youre his best friend. i told him about my feelings but i waited until after he gave me a " best friend kiss" but now were dating and have been for almost 5 months . hope everything works out , (:

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  • mjh1288
    13 years ago

    Im going thru the same situation only she knows how I feel about her. We keep it our little secret because she has told me its not the right time for us 2 be together. She dosent wanna risk ruining the friendship for somthing that may only last a couple of months so we r remaining best friends until it jst happens. But you should let him know how you feel since he is a guy his reaction will be different im sure. I think he would deffinately go for it. I mean if you cant be intimate with someone that close to you then who can you be intimate with!?! GO FOR IT! but even if he dosent feel the same way I encourage u to fight thru the pain...ive been going thru this for about a year now and it hurts but hey thats life. Sometimes you gotta take a chance!

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