Is it normal that im fantasizing about his best friend ?

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so my boyfriends best friend and i got real drunk at a party the other night, normally were close but not that close ... everytime id pass by hed grab me by the hips,and even whispered in my ear id sleep with you, once his pants were unzipped he showed me his boxers said you can touch in a joking way ... id rub his thighs wed hold hands ... small things that i know are so wrong but felt so good ... is it just the drinking ??? if so i can control that or is it soemthing else like hes interested in me which means maybe i should stay away until the sexual tension cools down ??

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  • squirtle
    11 years ago | pl

    you're obviously interested in him, and you're cheating on your bf (yes I consider that cheating), can't blame it on the alcohol.

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    • iGetDizzy
      11 years ago

      I condiser that cheating too. Totally agree with you on this one

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      • ilovebm
        11 years ago

        I agree with both of them ^

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      • Benchmade93
        11 years ago

        yep me too, I would kick you to the curb and beat him within an inch of his life if I was your boyfriend and just saying but you are a shitty girlfriend and he is a shitty bestfriend this will inevitably lead to heartbreak for your boyfriend.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago | pl

    Not normal.

    it sounds like you want to cheat. the alcohol is just an excuse to forgive yourself

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    • Nympho2013
      11 years ago

      This answer is perfection.

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  • tommy81
    11 years ago | pl

    Apparently, he's not your boyfriend's "best friend" after all.

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    Not normal. You cheated on him. Don't use the excuse of alcohol. He really isn't his best friend if he will cheat behind his back, the same for you! It would be interesting if he found out.

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  • Aleks85
    11 years ago

    Slut.

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  • socali
    11 years ago

    My husband had a frnd that hit on me all the time. One night we were drunk as hell and he started grabbing me in front of my husband. My husband looked at him and just went to bed. I didn't know what to do. I decided to stay and we ended up having sex. My husband asked me to never do it again and told his friend it was a one time thing. This was 4yrs ago and I'm glad that his friend respected my husband and has never even once tried anything. I'm still not sure how to feel about it. I'm not sure if it will become a problem later. I hope not.

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    • robbieforgotpw
      10 years ago

      What a great marriage you and your husband have!
      Hahahaha

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  • randypete
    11 years ago

    go and fuck him good

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  • jboykindacurious
    11 years ago

    I think your with the wrong person..

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  • warren4aj
    11 years ago

    fuck him.

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  • Akeem
    11 years ago

    You should stay away until the sexual tension cools down.

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  • BloodAndFire
    11 years ago

    You shouldn't cheat on your boyfriend. Being drunk or sober makes no difference because when you're drunk, you do things that you want to do but would never do sober. Therefore, you've had this attraction to his best friend when you were sober. So, you, ma'am, are a slut. Good day.

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  • Brianizzle
    11 years ago

    Thats horrible. Cheaters disgust me, seriously disgust me. What you did is already cheating.. AND NO it's NOT normal.

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  • fucku
    11 years ago

    Fuck him So hard he has to cum

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  • kingsleycrowne
    11 years ago

    you shouldn't be in a relationship if you can't resist temptation out of commitment to your bf. alcohol or no alcohol.

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  • RinTin
    11 years ago

    Shame on the both of you! Do what CoverYourEars said.

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  • chocolatchaud
    11 years ago

    he's attracted to you. are u attracted to him? more or less than your boyfriend? speak up now before causing yourself or others pain. i don't think drinking has much to do with it.

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  • kitchen.witch
    11 years ago

    i think its just the drinking. most men would get with any women, including their best friends, if given the opportunity. normally he would never try because of who you are dating, but alcohol blurs the lines between right and wrong (for both genders...).

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