Is it normal that im attached to my past?

hi, i dont think im normal n google suggested this sit :/
ok here i go, over the years iv had alot of problems, friends failed me, a guy i fell in love with n was with 1 year n 4 months trampled on my heart n the wounds r still there, even though iv met a ne guy n was happy with him, just at the moment we argue alot, i keep mentioning m past, and cant let it go, i dont know what i want, my past or future with new boyfriend iv been with almost 7 months. i fall in love to easy and fall hard , iv only ever had 2 boyfriends and both i fell hard for. i just feel like lifes fake, i feel lonely even though im surounded my many people at this current time, but i cant help feel they wont be around forver just like the people i have met n walked away in my past. i feel negative alot too. like nothing lasts forever, specially since my 1st breakup. i keep thinking of my past and when i see my ex i feel scared and sick and no lie i feel like i cant even stand up my legs r shaky im scared ill lose my balance i eel that sick, my life also seems fake cause my ex has changed so much, it makes what we had seem so fake, before he was decent nw he smokes , drinks, does drugs, has had 5 gf's and im scared

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Comments ( 6 )
  • Avant-Garde

    Sometimes it's hard to let go of the past, especially when it's all you've ever known...

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  • Darkoil

    You miss your ex.

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  • sunny_wantsome

    2 types of people enter everyones life

    1> To be with you
    2> To teach you a lesson of life

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  • UsernameNotAvailable

    And also about your ex-boyfriend. Forget him. If he's like that now then do you really want to surround yourself and your personality with whatever he gets you into, like drugs or smoking. It seems he has changed for the worst. You don't need people like that and your friends either. If they stabbed you in the back they were never your true friends. I think you should google what a true friend is. MOST IMPORTANTLY! Appreciate that you have a good boyfriend now. Remind him how much your thankful for him and don't be affraid to let him know that you fear him leaving you and try not to be to clingy with him because that will drive him away. It sounds like you have trust issues.

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  • UsernameNotAvailable

    Ah yes, the past can hurt. But the way I see it, is that you can either run from it or learn from it. I suggest that you learn not to trust others so easily. Protect your heart but don't harden it.

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  • joybird

    You are just growing up. Give this new guy a chance and stop arguing over trivial stuff.

    Life's too short - enjoy it while you can.
    Laugh every day!

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