Is it normal that im annoyed by this?

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My gf just told me that she wants to go out with a guy this weekend, just as friends of course. I would usually be fine with this because I know she's loyal and loves me very much. Only problem is that this particular guy hates me and would do anything to make me angry/upset. He is also very jealous of me and has told me he really likes my gf and wishes he had her. I've expressed to my gf that this situation makes me highly uncomfortable and that it would make me extremely unhappy, but she told me she didn't care. I'm not very demanding and hardly ask much from her and if she expressed similar concerns to me I would definitely change my plans. So it annoyed me to hear that she would still see him even though she's aware that it will hurt me, kinda makes me feel that she doesn't care about or respect my feelings. Should I be annoyed? Or am I being too sensitive?

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  • [email protected]
    10 years ago

    What the hell are you waiting for?Kick the bitch's ass out the fuckin door already!

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  • Thatguy777
    13 years ago

    You're girlfriend is inconsiderate of you knowing she's spending time with someone you dislike

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  • anonymousblahblah
    13 years ago

    You are worried she doesn't care? You said earlier that she doesn't care.. so obviously (and unfortunately) she doesn't care.. I would be the same if this situation happened to me, it is completely normal but in the end you have to trust your girlfriend. If she does anything then she obviously wasn't the right one for you anyway.

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  • viper305
    13 years ago

    Or so you think ;)

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  • furball
    13 years ago

    How do you know she hasn't been humping him already, you sorry shit - he will definitely bone her

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      13 years ago

      He's not going to "bone" her, she would never do that. To all the people who said that, have more respect for my gf. To everyone else, thanks for sharing your thoughts (especially Nick123). We have solved the issue now and are still happily together :)

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  • Nick123
    13 years ago

    your gf loves you
    and wouldnt dare to do anything to hurt you
    but what if you hurt her first?
    really badly... shes not trying to get back at you but she, just wants to meet him as a friend unlike what maybe you did
    she means no harm by it, but if it will hurt you in any way or break the relationship,or even effect it in any way she wounldnt see him, cause you know she loves you more than everything, no matter what and she will never think differently. she wants everything to work out and to stop fighting about stupid things, and just be mature and move on with things between the two of us, because we really do love eachother and your the most important thing to me... kinda made it obviouse ;P

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Being afraid she'll cheat*

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Ok people, before judging, imagine this same story told from his girlfriend's point of view. Shed be saying how she didn't think it's right how her boyfriend doesn't trust her, and you'd all be telling HER to dump HIM instead!

    My point is, his girlfriend might be doing it anyways just because she feels that he is disrespecting her by being afraid she'll. I know he said he isn't afraid of that, but telling her not to hang out with him is going to give her the impression that he doesn't trust her.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Ink she should respect you more than she is, but if you think she really does love you, then there's no reason to think that shed let anything happen.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    *definitely be respecting how you feel and acknowledging how uncomfortable it makes you.
    Plus, If she knows that this other kid likes her so much, why is she going to just hang out with him and lead him on like that?
    I th

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    On one hand, you shouldn't control who she hangs out with if they're friends, and you should trust your girlfriend. But on the other hand, she should def

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  • yayasaga
    13 years ago

    Dump her if she has that little amount of respect for you. If she flat put told you age doesn't care and is going to be that selfish then forget her and move on.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    she is goin' to suck his bone :D

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  • mtnw
    13 years ago

    your girlfriend is full of shit. she's lucky "annoyed" is all you are.

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  • viper305
    13 years ago

    They're gonna get it on :D

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  • inlove89
    13 years ago

    Agree that she shouldn't hang out with him at all.

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