Is it normal that im always stuck in the friend zone

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I would like to start out and say Hi! to everyone & here is my story...

I always had good friends growing up but from my teens to now i was always stuck in the friend zone with Women I am 20 now..i am indeed a Odd person don't talk much but i've always made women laugh and i can hold good conversation with women for hours and relate to them but for some reason i always get slammed in the Friend zone...im always told im funny charming and they tell me they wish there was more guys like me and wish they can find someone like me some day and when i get the balls to ask em out or just to even hang out i get some BS excuse on why they can't go "Hang out" or go on a "Date" with me Lately i been very social but im always put in this Friend zone..and yes i do got a Disability i got Aspergers Syndrome and people look at that like if im retarded but im not i just learn different and act different i never see in the middle i always see black or white..never Grey so either im really happy or very depressed never in the middle..so i ask why am in the friend zone what am i doing wrong how can i clime out of this crap hole and find the women i love..should i stop looking? and wait for it to come to me? or should i go out and look more?

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  • chaosdragoon1
    13 years ago

    Part of my problem is that I'm not like normal guys. They see a pretty girl=most want to try and get to know to date. I see them and think they are pretty but I wont have an interest in them until they show a character trait I like. By that time I've already befriended them and women love to have emotional crutches so they can maintain some self esteem when they break up with guys.

    Being a douche and trying to impress a chick by not being yourself tends to work despite what the media and movies portray. Lol

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  • chaosdragoon1
    13 years ago

    ^^ He's right. I don't have AS and I have the same problem with women.

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  • Zonfire80
    5 years ago

    Bipolar disorder

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    Just start sucking cocks. These guys get all the good men.

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    • Zonfire80
      5 years ago

      Fuck off lol

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  • technicallyhuman
    13 years ago

    act like a douche bag and youll get all the women you want. it sounds messed up but what women do is way worse so dont feel bad.

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    • Zonfire80
      5 years ago

      No!!! act like a SCUM BAG
      It's way sexier than a so called Douche bag.

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