Is it normal that im already attached to my boyfriend?

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I just got with this guy a week ago. We have been talking for a few weeks and on valentines day he asked me to be his girlfriend. I said yes of course because I actually really do like him. Here's the problem, ever since I got with him that night all I want to do is be with him. I'm scared that I might lose him because we live apart, he's in college and I'm still in high school, he drives and I don't, and sometimes we can be together but I freeze up and don't know what to say. He has already told me he loves me but I don't believe its true because how can you love someone in less than a week. I want to believe and trust him but something in my heart tells me not to. I don't know what to do because I really like him and I just really want a relationship that's going to last. I know I'm still young and that there is plenty of fish in the sea but I feel like I need to have a relationship to make me happy. I'm stuck in a situation that I never know how to handle. I need some advice before I come off as to pushy, needy, and obsessed to the point where I drive him away. Help!

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  • Agwwgp
    12 years ago

    He's telling you what you want to hear. He wants to get in your pants. Don't allow him to push you into sex. Guys who go to collage, they all want to get laid. Be careful!

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    When you say you 'got with him' does that mean you slept with him?

    If so what you are feeling is normal - as it's a hormone called ozytocin.

    If not, you can control yourself and you don't have to love him back coz he's using that line on you.

    I'm not as young and naive, and I've heard every line in the book. This 'love' bullshit could be just to get you into bed. Just take that statement with a pinch of salt and if he's right for you, you two will be in no rush and will be together for ever.

    Tell him to chill out - he's playing with your feelings!

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