Is it normal that im almost 30 and still can't seem to find anyone?

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So I guess I'm asking if I will ever find someone?

I'm a guy living in the UK. I'm almost 30 now and never had a relationship. As you can probably tell from that, I'm still a vergin. At 30 years old!!!

I do lack in confidence and come across as a super shy guy at first but once someone gets to know me I'm quite fun, or so I'm told.

I believe a big thing is that I'm in an electric wheelchair and women don't seem to see past it. They see the chair not the guy in it.

I have reacently been talking to a really nice woman around my own age in America. She seems funny and smart and is really pretty too. We have been txting and video chatting for 2 months now and it all seemed real nice. We would chat for hours and tell each other things we hadn't told anyone else. I thought we were falling for each other until, despite the distance, I asked her if there could be an us? She told me she loved chatting to me and really valued me as a friend but had no romantic feelings for me.

I'm now crushed as, even though this wasn't a relationship, it's the closest I have come. I fear I wont ever find someone who will like me for who I am ever again.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    There have got to be web sites for people in wheelchairs who want to date; there are sites for everything!. Start there.
    It may be tough, but if you are a good person and not bitter, you shouldn't have a lot of trouble finding someone who doesn't mind your limitations.

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  • Westone
    9 years ago

    Well...I feel maybe you are too particular about what you want that maybe you dont see the other qualities the people you have met have and have no ability to compromise. I love my girl for her indifferences and for what I love in her.

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  • CheyChey
    9 years ago

    Didn't this woman know she was leading you on, I am a woman but I don't get why a woman would lead someone on while fully knowing she doesn't see the person in that way. Good luck with finding someone to be in a relationship with as thegypsysailor suggested go on those dating websites for people in wheelchairs and have fun meeting new women.

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