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It's not the fact i've never had sex that bothers me, it's the fact i haven't had a meaningful relationship that ever got that far. It actually feels like a hollow ache in my chest whenever i think about it.
Is it normal to feel like this?
It's completely honorable to be a virgin these days.
It's like being a unicorn or something.
I'm 19 and a virgin. Exact situation you're in. I just can't find someone who I care about enough, and I'm not a shallow person so I don't just grab a whore and stick it in her because I can.
I feel sex is being overdone. I'm 19 and I haven't found a relationship deep enough to consider making love to someone. I think it's totally normal. I want it to be special when I first do it, not because everyone else my age has already done it.
Lost virginity at 16 and had no bearing on your life? Of course not. Do it later and it would have huge consequences. Be happy you didn't wait.
Each year after that reduces enjoyment of life because you one day regret each year of non-sex, and people make more fun of you, reducing your social life. It is a double wammy. Bad in spades.
I'm waiting to be married. I think it's way more special to only do it with one person, one that you really care about.
i lost my virginity when i was 23 and only when i was comfortable in that relationship. my current bf is nearly 31 and he lost his virginity to me last year. Very normal. Just do it when your comforable enough. It will happen.
Sigh. Again? Yes, if you haven't had sex it's totally normal that your a virgin. No?
Why do guys pay much attention to being virgins. Sex isn't the biggest acomplishment to make so why bother being worried so much.
Why do girls ALWAYS think this? I never said that was all I was after, and whether you read my specific post or not idk. But it's pretty blatantly insinuated that there is AT LEAST one person here who proves your point invalid. Making generalizations is a pretty terrible way to judge any situation.
Maybe not statistically normal, but not weird, either. Some people have misgivings about sex outside of a relationship, even guys. And some guys can't just get any, no matter how much they try.
If your luckey enough to get married to that luckey guy that finds you. I guarantee the love & lust for each other will never fade.
Yes it's normal. I'm 19 and i'm still a virgin. In fact i hope to always remain a virgin.
Still a 21 virgin.... all through highschool I was SO scared of getting pregnant or an STD lol
There's no shame in being a virgin, in fact it's quite honorable. Just wait til you find the right person; it may even be that you wait until martiage but at least you'll know it's with the right person.
If that's not what you wanna hear then give me a call. ;)
Yea dude, It's normal for sure.
The way I see virginity is like this. (This is a random analogy, but bear with me.) It's like crossing the state line to Iowa for a second for the sake of saying that you've been to Iowa before.
The honest truth is, there's more virgins around you than you realize, it's just not that everybody flaunts it. Whether you are or aren't, it doesn't matter. Be proud that you are a virgin, because a vast majority of people can't say the same thing.
i had the same problem man...you need to take it easy... make a visit to a stripclub maybe a brothel( which i prefer)..they will teach you...you'll see
Im was 24 when I lost mine, Its gets harder the longer you wait I think... But it was worth waiting.
The sad fact for guys, is that you have to work ten times harder to get laid than if you are a girl. I was fighting off boys from the age of 13, but when I fell in love (or so I thought) at 16, I couldn't resist.
19 and a mental virgin. My physical virginity was taken from me when I was younger. Which sucks but I still consider myself a virgin and like it. I just don't know anyone who I want to share it with yet. No one has caught my eye.
i'm 24. lost my virginity at 16.
made no bearing whatsoever on my life in any meaningful way. from 21 on sex just got better