Is it normal that im a sucker for love?

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I've been with my boyfriend 4 n a half yrs on n off since I was 16 and he was 19. Im 20 now and he is 23. He means a lot to me and him being my 1st has played a big role with my feelings towards him. I have had other relationships in between our break ups but I end up right back with him...its going on 5yrs and through all the mess and craziness we have been thru I would like a commitment or something it just seems like im never going to get it. Its like im wasting my time he say he wants to be with me and that he wants to fix the kinks but I don't see no effort at all...I love u is not enough or claiming he doesn't want to loose me. Ill admit i have trust issues with him cause i feel like he lie about little things im here no matter what why lie to me. I just don't know what to do anymore im tired of crying, nagging, and trying to get him to see im all for him to much I may say! I feel like we have a lot of growing up to do in this relationship but it's as if im trying by myself. I don't want to keep leaving and I end up back at it again some may say I can't be as tired of him as I may say yet its out of hope that keeps me coming back..but the trying to make things work with little help as well as of talking saying the same shit and he's not hearing me is gettin to me emotionally! Somebody share some advice please.

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  • millefeuille
    11 years ago

    Get a cat.

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  • jesusdiedlol
    12 years ago

    Am I the only one that read "loose" as loose and not lose. Probably a silly mistake. But move on because he won't change. Accept it or just leave it alone

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  • Corleone
    12 years ago

    You can keep nagging to him all you want but he's not going to change. Ever. I suggest you move on. Get some time on your own, try to find out what kind of person you want to spend your life with.

    You're still young, so it's normal you're not sure what kind of guy you want to spend the rest of your life with. Don't waste your youth on someone you who isn't worth your time.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Oh no. It looks like IIN is going back into the stage of love stories that are always normal.

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    • urlove
      12 years ago

      Um......

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  • ariannel
    12 years ago

    It might help if you listed the things you're looking from him to show his commitment to you. Men tend to respond to specifics rather than generalizations. You probably need to spell things out to him. Let him know exactly what you want.

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    • urlove
      11 years ago

      I left him alone...I have another relationship

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    • urlove
      12 years ago

      Tried that he will agree but want change non

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      • ariannel
        12 years ago

        Then you need to decide if his unwillingness to change is a dealbreaker for you. If you're unsatisfied with your relationship, then you're not obligated to be with him. If you do break up, consider making it for good. Make an honest effort to see new people. Or, consider not being in a relationship for a while. Give yourself some time to cleanse and rejuvenate... so to speak.

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        • urlove
          12 years ago

          That's what I was thinkin about doing cause its to the point we don't talk and its mainly on his end

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