Is it normal that im 18 and have never had a bf?

So iv never had a boyfriend and im 18, never had a kiss. I havn't been interested in a relationship at all really because of reasons such as all the problems that go with it. After seeing what my mum has been through in her relationships kinda contributed to putting me off as well. It kind of worries me because to others im not normal in their eyes, because in this world u have to have relationships, otherwise your just weird or something... Maybe the right one has just not come along, im also scared of certain things ( like intimacy) like i think i would be able to do those normal things if i really liked a guy. Also really irritates me when people assume that im gay when im not, i just don't want a bf yet. So is this normal, and will i ever have those crazy crushes i use to get on certain guys when i was younger??? i don't like being judged and would like to just be me :/ I dont want to be alone foreverr though and would like to date guys later but id have to really have a crush to do anything like kiss and know the fellow for ages to feel comfortable...

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Based on 46 votes (39 yes)
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  • awesometodd

    Totally normal

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Nothing wrong with that go and be a butterfly when you are ready don't let society control you.

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    • theworldsfuked

      thanks =)

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  • Memehoney

    My BESTFRIEND has never had a real boyfriend either. My last relationship ended really bad (cheating, heartbreak, games) the works. She said after seeing what I went thru she's scared and doesn't want to go thru the same thing. But i told her not to let that intimidate her because love is different for everyone. Regardless of the bad I grew from the experience & I was taught a lot about love, but I fully understand her reasoning though. I lost my virginity at 17 with my ex and wouldn't change it for the world because you should be choosy with your heart. You deserve the best And don't worry about dating guys or what other people think. At your age stick to college and living. Relationships aren't what they use to be loyalty is rare, everyone wants to have a relationship but doesn't know how thats how hearts get broken and trust issues start but in real love relationships are amazing and love is wonderful but they take investments & time. So when ur ready Mr. Right will be RIGHT there. :)

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    • theworldsfuked

      ok cheers for the advice =)

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