Is it normal that i would rather sleep than have sex most of the time?

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I have been with my boyfriend for a few years now. We use to have sex all the time, but now I just don't feel the urge to have sex anymore. I would rather cuddle or sleep instead. He is always busy with work and school so he doesn't really have time for me also, and so I do feel a resentment towards him for that and I am using the power of my vagina to make him pay! And when he does have time, all he wants to do is have sex and I don't want that! Is it normal for me to feel that way or am I just being an evil girlfriend?!

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    11 years ago

    That line just made me lol "I am using the power of my vagina TO MAKE HIM PAY! you go girl! All for it! LOL! To answer your question yes it is normal that you feel this way if he does not see you that often. If he never sees you and when he does he wants sex you are probobly feeling neglected and used. That you do not want to be treated like some dime store whore. I am not saying you are bad or you should have sex with him. However he might not be wanting sex just for that reason but since he misses you. He should try and spend more time with you. If he is really away that much it can not be good for the relationship. What does he do exactly? Any way you can try and work around his hours and maybe have a nice night?

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  • Justsomejerk
    11 years ago

    There is an obvious solution.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    You say that he doesn't have time for you, yet him wanting to have sex with you is, technically, him wanting to spend time with you. You probably just don't enjoy, or value, sex as much as he does in your relationship. Are you able to orgasm from intercourse with him?

    Seriously, I would rather have sex than sleep any day of the week, and I actually do love to sleep.

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    • iin07
      11 years ago

      Yeah, I don't enjoy it as much as he does. I have never been able to orgasm and I don't know why..

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