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Is it normal that all the women I've dated or will ever date are very attractive? Like 8s, 9s, and 10s are all I would really want. I have other standards like a great personality, but a great personality on an average or below average girl appearance wise doesn't cut it for me. Is this normal?
i know bro, 8, 9 and 10 are the best age to start dating them, but when they hit the teens TOO OLD UGH!!!!
Oh, good. It just seems really awful to reduce people you're considering dating to numbers like that, like physical attractiveness is the only thing you're considering. And even when people ask people to rate them, the only right answer is "10", but then they won't believe you.
That's pretty shallow. If you stay as superficial as you are right now you'll never connect deep down with someone or even be able to meet someone amazing. Don’t undermine people like that, give them a chance. The reason average girls aren’t cut out for you is because you are not trying to see the big picture. It's normal that you'd rather go for chicks that are a beauty but have any of your relationships ever lasted? Can you really see them for who they are? Or is everything on the outside enough for you?
We all have a different definition of what an 8-9-10 is, and yours may be different from that of other men that I know.
My husband is not a superficial jackass, but he has admitted to me that even though he did not go for many of the women that he was friends with because he wasn't attracted to them.
You can't help who you are attracted to, but if your standards are so high and you yourself are not exactly a Brad Pitt, then good luck finding an Angelina Jolie that will stay with you, and you're going to have to refrain from long-term relationships because Angelina probably won't look so hot 20 years from now.
Do what you want, but at least be honest with them in that you're only interested in them so long as they look good.
Hmm, this is usually the common female trap! 70% of women seem to chase after the top 10% of guys (evolutionary - alpha males get to populate the "herd"), even if they just end up getting used for 1 night stands. This is especially cruel as it leads many girls into believing they are also 8,9s or 10s, and many end up single for a long time before they work it out.
Personally I can go with any number as long as they are slim. I just cannot ever go with a fat ass, sorry!
UNFORTUNATELY it's so common. :( and that's really shallow. There's so much more to a person than their looks. I mean what if she was GORGEOUS but bitchy as fuck? Would you date her then? I think that a nice fun personality makes a girl even more beautiful than if she's bitchy. Just a thought...try to focus on what girls are like more :)
I'm like that, too, with men. I only really find myself crushing on 8's and above. It's not that I really chose to be that way, I just never really develope any kind of feelings for those lower than an 8. I think sixs and sevens are pretty hot too, but I always find myself falling for those 8 and up. I don't know why. That's just how I'm programmed.