Is it normal that i would only date a guy if he could pass as a girl?

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What i mean is, knowing that he's a guy, i would date him but only if he looked pretty much like any girl. I don't mean with fake boobs or anything surgical(i'm not talking about trans in this case). I just mean like with like a feminine face and long hair...Probably have to be dressed to match too. Is it normal that i would only date a guy if he looked like that?

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  • Zorak
    6 years ago

    Sounds kind of odd. I don't understand your preferences....and things I do not understand make me confused and violent!!!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Yeah i don't entirely understand them either.

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  • Maid_in_Pink
    6 years ago

    Yeah, it's normal. It can also be a precursor to bisexuality or homosexuality. A lot of time people fail to come to terms with their own sexuality so they have interesting paraphilias that cater to what they can't come to terms with. It isn't ALWAYS the case but for instance someone may say things like, "Oh, I don't like men, but I want to date a very muscular female body builder." A couple years down the road they come to terms with the sexuality and come out as being gay, or maybe they just end up liking muscular women. It isn't always related to homosexuality but it can be.

    That being said...

    When I was back in my teenage years I didn't openly express myself to anyone but I had my hair long, weighed under 120lbs and was about 5'4" and could easily...VERY easily fit in teenage girl clothes and I always thought I looked cute. But I also am trans. I think what you're looking for you're probably going to find more trans people in that range that might not be so interested in the ladies...I was but I'm a bit...atypical. I'm also like super girly with my insane obsession with pink, lace, ruffles, etc...Enough so that it actually drove one of my ex's away. I've been around a bit, NOT a lot, but a bit and I, personally, have never met a girly guy that wasn't trans or at the very least a sissy boi for men.

    I do wish you the best of luck on your hopes of finding someone, I'm sure if you do you could make each other very happy.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Yeah...it's too bad most of the really girly guys are gay because that's the only way i'd really be able to be happy with one. I don't think i could be comfortable with it any other way. Even though i want to.

      And it's not that I can't come to terms with sexuality or anything like that, it's more that I just don't feel comfortable snuggling up with any other type of figure, if that makes any sense... I mean, in the end i pretty much like the same things in women that i do men, but i want more from men than i normally get.

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      • Maid_in_Pink
        6 years ago

        Sexuality isn't really just like the three primary labels either, it really is kind of a sliding scale. You have the things you are physically attracted to and that's part of your sexuality and then the things that you are emotionally attracted to.

        For instance my ex that didn't like my pink and ruffles obsession, she thought I was too girly like...emotionally and stuff. I acted too girly and had some really girly things in my room and I tended to wear dresses and stuff and she thought that was TOO girly for her. She decided to give being a Lesbian a shot and ended up dating a girl that was about the same size as me but was a lot more manly than I ever was. Converse to that I've had men leave me because I was too girly looking but they liked that I was a lot more feminine in my mannerisms and mentality.

        I get the snuggling thing too...women are so much better to snuggle with but guys are just...sexy when they get a little forceful with sex.

        What do you mean you want more from men than you normally get? I'm a bit curious.

        In the end everyone is different and what you like is just up to you.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          6 years ago

          Yeah that's what I've realized. People like certain traits rather than any actual gender, but some people are more flexible in what they're willing or able to love. I just can't get comfortable at all with most men, i mean i wish i could be more comfortable with them or at least find one i can be comfortable with. Like when i see traps that are cute i just want to hug them and cuddle with them or might even be horny with them(like you have no idea how much i want to; It's overwhelming) but i see a guy i understand to be cute and there's nothing. It's like a closed door. It doesn't attract me at all, in fact i'd rather stay away. And although I know i like being with women(even though i'm not very good at all with sex in that area; It's almost embarrassing.), i want to be able to be with guys more than i am relationship wise.
          On a side note it is very entertaining when a guy out-girls a girl. But not always cute.

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    • rayb12
      6 years ago

      Everyones hair weighs under 120 lbs

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  • CDmale4fem
    6 years ago

    So just a cross dressing male isn't what turns you on? I am across dresser, BUT I am very much lacking in the "girly" look you desire. I am very much male, hairy chest and all.(But I did shave my legs last night. I do it during colder weather, it really feels good) But I'm guessing that would not be enough. I kinda enjoy being dressed around certain female friends, the ones that are able to be friends without passing judgment. Very few of them anymore.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      I don't think what you described does it for me, no.
      I don't mind a little boyish, in fact i _think_ I like it more that way, and i can handle the male structure of the bones and such, and obviously the manhood, but it'd have to be very very dulled down or girly. So something like a weird hybrid of girl and guy i guess?

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      • CDmale4fem
        6 years ago

        I guess the sad part, for me anyway, if given the option to try and see what happens I would love to have a chance where I could spend a day or more with a female such as yourself that would at least give it a shot to see how things shape up or see if anything could be found that would either help you laugh, smile, or just tell me how good my legs look shaved in pantyhose. Lol. If you, somewhere in there start getting aroused, then I'm okay with that. Lol. I'm kidding, I'm very much male body structure, facial hair, etc. Would have to be a miracle of God for me to EVER pass as female. But Good Luck in your search.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          6 years ago

          There are women who like crossdressers that aren't feminine. Plenty of women. I guess i'm just too gay for that...

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    whatever the fuck you want but suppose you found this rare dude and he didnt want to date you? what then?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Dunno... I guess i'd be fine with girls.

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