Is it normal that i would like to make love to my father?

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I never had a kind fatherly figure around and when I met my real dad for the first time I felt protected. Some really bad things have happened to me in the past and I know he will always protect me. I feel weird and abnormal that I want to have sex with him. Is it because I haven't seen him my whole life? Is it because I want to make him love just me? Is it because I want to make him feel good? (Because he has had bad things happen to him) I just need advice. Please dont tell me im a screw up... And dont tell me I need to be locked in a mental institution. I just need somebody to tell me what it is I'm feeling.

Go for it! 20
It's normal for a young girl to feel that way and it will pass. 8
These feelings won't pass. 0
Get help now. 8
Talk to your father about it. 4
Not normal whatsoever. 7
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  • thr
    10 years ago

    There have been news cases of similar things, and in these the term genetic sexual attraction is used to describe attraction between biological family members who meet for the first time as adults. So you're not totally abnormal.

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  • SkullsNRoses
    10 years ago

    I have heard of serveral cases of women being separated from their father, brother or even grandfather and on re-union feeling s sexual attraction.

    What you are feeling has been experienced by others, and you don't need to be "locked in a mental insititution". However I think you should look into counciling to help you understand your feelings and hopefully move on from this.

    Ignore any trolls and good luck.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Do not tell him about it. If you can move on for those thoughts do. If you are too obsessed with it then try thinking about someone else.

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  • irishrage
    10 years ago

    yes its normal hun. he wasnt a part of your life and now that he is the emotions are intense. you want to love him every way you can thats why you want to have sex with him. you want to streanthen your bond with him. just remember he is your father and in time the filling will pass

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  • Couman
    10 years ago

    There's a name for this: "genetic sexual attraction", or GSA. I kind of doubt it's actually genetic, but in any case it refers to a real phenomenon where relatives who grew up separately experience sexual attraction when they eventually meet. It doesn't happen all the time, but apparently it's somewhat common.

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  • handsignals
    10 years ago

    It's totally normal me and my Dad always pull out the blond wig and play 'it's your turn to be auntie Deborah' when we go camping.

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    10 years ago

    Disgusting.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    This is disturbing...

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  • Aldiddlerharro
    8 years ago

    I think it's an over whelming Lust for this person....
    You've always imagined wondered longed for...
    You have to take control of your feelings and manipulate them into the right feelings.
    Want to make them happy... Make memories go places...
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    Allow them to do these things parents "should" do! And push aside thoughts of what they "shouldn't"

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  • abigdick
    9 years ago

    My ex had sex with her father from the time she was 13 until she was 22. After the first year or so, she could not get enough sex from him.

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  • CreativeThinker
    10 years ago

    Find a caring boyfriend

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  • dport112
    10 years ago

    The sex with my ex was kinky. It started as her calling me daddy in bed. Then it lead to me calling her "baby girl". Once we had sex on her dads bed when he was away and i could see how much she loved it. She used to suck on a pacifier and put a bib on while i fckd her. I miss it and ever since we broke up i havent been able to fill this fantasy with anyone and the urge just gets stronger.Honestly keep doing it, its the best.

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  • cumblaster
    10 years ago

    I have a female frined that I have discussed this with in great length.
    She's very much into daddy daughter sex, but in a warm, loving way.
    There is also the aspect of the taboo of it being exciting for a slutty daughter. Or perhaps a daughter who hates her mother and fucking dad is a way for her to express that hate.
    There's a lot of reasons why a female might be sexually attracted to her dad.

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