Is it normal that i worry i will never lose my virginity?

Am I the only one that is okay with being a virgin their whole life? I'd rather die a virgin then to let some douche take it. Once it's gone, it's gone forever. I don't mind waiting for the one who I know will love me and if it never happens, I don't really care.

I am the same way! I was 27 when I lost my virginity, and he could have cared less that I didn't shave my pubic hair. You'll find someone, and don't worry if you're a 30 yr old virgin, if you wait for the right guy and right time, it'll be more special!!!

I used to worry I'd never get a boyfriend and all the jazz when I was 13. Then I lost 31 lbs over the summer and came back thinner. I got my first boyfriend at 14 (blind date) and then i dated his friend (emotionally abusive) and when I was 16, started dating my current boyfriend. 5 years later, we're still together.

I think everyone worries about this because of the fear of being alone. Trust me, you will find someone. But dont have sex just for the sake of having sex. Make sure it's someone you care about.

You can easily lose your virginity by placing it somewhere you'd never think it would be and just walking away. Then someone else who needs a virginity can pick it up and take it home where they'll treasure it and feed it Twinkies and an occasional glass of Riesling (well chilled, of course)

Facebook, if you're bangable I'll make that decision and resolve your little issue. If not you could always resort to beastility.

If you really want to throw that special something away to join the 95th percentile be my guest. I wish I saved it for my wife :S

I like hairy ladies :) You will find somebody.

I used to feel a bit like that too in that even tho guys seemed to fancy me, i felt that guys would think my body wasnt nice ect when they saw my body if we had sex, i tink its jus a common ting when you havnt had sex. Im 19 now but i met my bf in collage when i was 18. We waited a month before i would officially go out with him and 9 months before we slept together and i lost my virginity. Sex is not something to worry abou and as for loosing your virginity you should wait till you feel so loved and comfortable with a person that it just comes naturally.

You will find someone. If you want to be loved, is better to be loved by someone who likes you for you and not by the way you look.

I saw a TV programme about some porn mag that features readers' wives and they said that the most popular woman they had was one who was a little chunky and had armpit hair. Men liked her coz she was a real woman that was attainable, not some air-brushed model.

I doubt you are already 30 but don't worry about losing your virginity, you'll probably marry the first man you sleep with coz he will love you so much, coz of that very fact ;o)

Hey don't feel so bad cause I am *gasp* the 30-year-old virgin you so hope not to be! haha ;) I too worry that I will become a 40-year-old virgin but hopefully that won't be the case! lol I can see why you are concerned though as we all want someone to love and to hold us and yes, be intimate with! I hope that you and I both will find what we are looking for! Though I may not be the one to talk given my record, I am a human being with feelings , morals, and common sense and would think that being yourself is the best way to go! Maybe try to talk more with guys and be more approachable in that way! Flirt a little although I am not experienced in this so don't exactly know how to do it! keke As far as you saying you are ugly, don't ever put yourself down like that! No matter how you look like, you are NOT ugly, beautiful in fact (we are all created in the image of God) and you can surely find a handsome, hot even, guy who will love you for who you are! Beauty in fact does start within!! ;) Keep your head up!^^ You are young too so age is on your side!

if your 30 and a virgin then you have just let much of life pass you by ... 30+ female is a fast down hill slope.

duno why people save virginity like its holy ...

i think something is wrong with you and its not normal at all ... that's my honest opinion

I agree with JamesMitchell29486.

Put an add on a dating/sex site, find a strange and get him to take your virginity.

After that, sex won't seem that scary, had the exact same feeling untill I lost mine at 23.

listen as long as you have a vagina there will be a man that wants to fuck it and I have a little advice for everyone try getting the person you find the hottest first because it is within the rhelm of possiblity that he/she thinks you are the hottest peice of ass they have ever seen it doesn't matter what you look like because somewhere out there there is a person that will find you irresistable or may even fetishize what you think is your biggest flaw.Guys all you need to get laid is enough money to pay for drinks and to smell nice and not look like a slob(meaning no stains on your clothes) And to be confident in yourself and to feel that you are handsome and wothy of love because the biggest hurdle/stumbling block for guys is self esteem.Now women all you need to do to get laid is smell nice and not be a bitch seriously men will put up with a lot of ugly for a good personality actually most guys would prefer the ugly girl that is nice to the pretty bitch and if your an ugly bitch you will die alone.

Here, Let me lose your virginity for you.. :) jke.

You'll find someone, try travelling abroad. Foreigners usually like "Foreigners".

girl trust me a dude will hump anything on legs!

You should probably start by working on your self-esteem. It sounds like you don't love yourself or give yourself too much credit. If you can't love yourself, how can you expect anyone else to?

you are muchhh too insecure about yourself. A crippling insecurity, I would say. i didn't have a bf until 22 and i didn't care to have one at all. I'm an MA student. I loved my work, and I loved my ambition. i suggest you do the same, and let a man come in 'on the side,' so to speak. Not LITERALLY 'on the side,' (a relationship does consume a lot of your emotional resources) but just don't obsess over it. Women need to learn how to become strong. love yourself first. Then let a man love you.

I know what you mean. I'm a 18 year old virgin here. In not particularly confident either.

I'm happy with my own body and I'm sure you are fine too. I personally don't mind if girls have pubes.

I don't think its selfish to want a partner who you find attractive.

Why are you worried - ? You know yourself far better than anyone else in social situations with girls. If your under 20 - forget about it, it will happen./

It's not normal NOT to worry about that. Think of it this way: the advantage of your situation is that you are not going to end up with someone who only wants you for your body, and when you do get someone you know it will be because they love you. As long as you keep yourself available, the right person will come along. Believe it or not, there are guys who feel the same as you.

I feel the same. Although I think I feel like I'm missing out on more the relationship part.

Out of all the concerns of the world, yours is sex ?