Is it normal that i worry i love my girlfriend more than she loves me?

I think I love her more than she loves me. I swear she doesn't try as hard to keep things going smoothly. Is it just me or does everyone else get this?

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78% Normal
Based on 94 votes (73 yes)
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  • Ldizzy1234

    Try? I'm no expert on relationships, but something inside of me is telling me that when you're in a relationship with someone, and you find yourself still feeling like you have to 'try' to win their heart over, or even to just get a little of their attention, thats not a good sign.

    A relationship should work both ways, 50/50. You shouldn't feel as though you're working your ass off with no reciprocation.

    If you want, you should talk to her about it first. It could all just be in your head. Explain to her what you're feeling, and see what she says. If she denies it, but nothings changed in the relationship and you still have that uncomfortable feeling she doesn't love you as much, break up, or try again. Your decision. But if she doesn't deny it, she might be willing to work on the problem areas if you suggest it to her. If she doesn't wanna do that, just break it off. Hope it works out for ya! Good luck!

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    • I've talked to her about it. The feelings mutual, so I guess it was all in our heads. We're going to try and be more open to each other.

      Thanks Ldizzy1234!

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      • Ldizzy1234

        Anytime! :) I'm glad its all good.

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  • codeblue

    Use that pimp hand

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    • Timeless advice, thank you kind sir.

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  • Shackleford96

    Would she still be with you if you had no money?

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    • I don't have any money hahaha

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      • Shackleford96

        Lol, well I suppose that throws out my suspicions with THAT theory then :P

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  • Bily

    I have been married 14 years and I feel the same way still. Guys it is just us and our insecurity. We expect more than they are prepared to give, right or wrong. Guys want different from a relationship to gals. If you want somebody who wants the same as you turn gay! Have you noticed how many bi/lesbian girls there are?

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  • AmaMizu6

    Maybe you should ask her, and if she gets upset about the matter, then maybe she doesn't. :(

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  • MoeLester

    I feel the same way about the relationship I'm in, brah
    Attempt trying less hard and you might notice that your girlfriend will pick up her pace a bit c(:

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  • ccjigsaw

    That's normal, almost everyone thinks this atleast once in their life time.

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  • Captain_Kegstand

    Girls are stressful as hell! If they weren't so wonderful I might just go gay lolz.

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  • jboykindacurious

    I can tell you now that it is very normal. I use to feel that way torwards my girl friend. But its normal to feel that way

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  • ValleyofVung

    Everyone worries about this in relationships. In my experience, if you think you do, it's probably true.

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