Is it normal that i wonder if women want me because of my handicaps?

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This might be a stupid question...

Does the fact I got Epilepsy, Reuma and more handicaps discourage women to like me?

I mean, most of the time my body hurts or is tired.

And because of that I probably never can get a job. I read women like status in a man or something... I must have loooooow status then. Not to say I don't go out or stuff. I do that, I just get tired quickly and my body hurts almost constantly.

Please women, share your thoughts.

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  • dappled
    12 years ago

    Status is just *one* thing that *some* women like in a man. Don't be too put off by things like this. I can't speak for the women here (or anywhere, really) but I don't think many would discount you.

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  • MissClaire
    12 years ago

    Dont let what "the majority of people want" confuse you - everyone wants different things from a partner, you will find yours.

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  • howaminotmyself
    12 years ago

    I'm sorry you have to endure this. What's your diet like? Certain foods can trigger pain and make your body work harder than it needs to.

    This wouldn't bother me at all. I'd view it as a challenge with the best kind of rewards. I enjoy caring for the men in my life when they fall ill. Women too for that matter. Most woman are nurturers and would be more than happy to care for your needs. If they aren't, why would you want to be with them in the first place?

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  • kingdean
    7 years ago

    yeah dude women are bitches. or at least the hot ones. im sure there are some out there that will fuck you though bro!

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    • BonnieTheBunny
      7 years ago

      Women are bitches huh? Try saying that to a woman's face and see what happens you cunt. Yeah, I know what you said on my poll and I'm disgusted to see what kind of person you are. You make me sick.

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  • LovelyMay
    10 years ago

    My sister had epilepsy. Wasn't too bad though :)

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  • Audacia
    12 years ago

    I'm a guy but I'm sure theirs plenty of women out their for you. Just probably instead of an active aggressive type woman, you'd fit better with a delicate kind woman who likes to do things you can and enjoy doing.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I just look for a guy who can me laugh and a guy who I feel comfortable with and someone who loves me. Oh and trustworthy.

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  • Galvani
    12 years ago

    Thank you.

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  • Galvani
    12 years ago

    What do you mean? I don't bite people.

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    • bluesun
      12 years ago

      lol, there i took my comment out, sorry i was commenting to other story( by you), not this one.

      and i hope you find the right girl, good luck :)

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  • Galvani
    12 years ago

    Thanks for the kind comments. It sure helped me!

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  • TyLee
    12 years ago

    Everyone with some physical issue can relate here. In my last relationship I was having liver failure and it did eventually cause us to break up because he couldn't handle me being tired and weak (not to mention my yellow eyes/jaundice freaked him out) so yes I think physical problems do get in the way and may prevent women from going for you but ask yourself why would you want to be with someone who would let it get in the way anyway?

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  • Smartasscookie
    12 years ago

    It might deter some but others may not care, if you really like someone you'd accept their attributes and flaws

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I wouldn't have a problem with it. I'm pretty lazy and I love giving massages so it'll work :)

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  • mumbum
    12 years ago

    We all have something at different times that doesn't work or function properly... All anyone cares about is who you are as a
    Person, how you treat others, and then of course what it is that is special between the two of you. Not worrying about what other women are thinking is your first challenge here... Being yourself will speed up the process of connecting with someone. Women who just want a man with status are not the kind of women you want to date anyway! Getting tired easily is no big deal at all. Same with body pain...if the two of you enjoy each others company who cares where you are?!? Really, don't worry about anything!!!

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