Is it normal that i won't have sex until i'm sterilized?

I'm 21 right now (22 this fall) and I'm a single virgin. I don't want toget involved romantically with someone and lose it yet until I've gotten 100% sterilized through a hysterectomy (some time in my 30s or 40s). That way, I can finally have sex (hopefully with the future love of my life) without ever falling pregnant.

There's just too much risk otherwise (even a tubal could fail). I don't ever want a baby anyway.

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Based on 43 votes (15 yes)
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  • thegypsysailor

    If one percent is a big risk to you, I'm surprised you even get out of bed, ever. Your chance of dying each day is a lot greater than getting pregnant with the proper precautions.
    I do think if you stay a virgin as long as you intend, you will probably remain one for your whole life.
    Your sex drive (which sounds low already) will only lessen with age and being alone gets to be a habit that is very hard to break.
    Go out and have a wonderful youth and should there be a problem, be thankful for Roe v Wade.

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  • wistfulmaiden

    Um what are you waiting for?

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    Mirena IUD is much cheaper, effective within a week and has the lowest risk of pregnancy. Its risk is comparable to getting fixed. I have it and I fuck a lot. Never been pregnant. Effective for five years. Trust, it's good shit.

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  • stopandthink

    So you don't want sex until 10 years from now? Hmm it makes me wonder!

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